What are the rules to follow when choosing a wedding date?

It is necessary for newcomers to choose a good wedding day. So what are the rules for choosing a good day to get married? Let's take a look at the prospective couple.

Before choosing a wedding date, you need to know:

1, respect both parents: the elderly will be very concerned about choosing the date and so on. We must respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision;

2. Don't be too superstitious: Although "auspicious day on the ecliptic" is a tradition in China, at the same time, we should understand that the happiness of marriage lies in whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid or not, and it doesn't depend on a certain "auspicious day on the ecliptic", so we need to make arrangements from a scientific perspective.

3. Set the wedding date as early as possible: In foreign countries, couples usually choose the wedding date 1 year before the wedding date, which can facilitate the arrangement of other matters in the future. Of course, you can also choose the date according to the international situation, but try to determine the wedding date as early as possible and prepare enough time for the wedding planning, so don't rush! You can ask important guests for advice before setting the wedding date, but you don't have to cater to too many people. Once you have set a wedding date, don't change it easily.

Matters needing attention in choosing a wedding date:

1. Try to avoid peak days during the wedding rush hour.

Due to the influence of climate and environment, there are different wedding peaks all over the country, because new people hope to hold their weddings on these good days. When choosing a wedding date, you must first understand the wedding peak period and the peak days in the city where you want to hold the wedding, and try to avoid these peak days. In this case, it will be of great benefit to choose wedding ceremony, camera, float, hotel, dress, etc. And it will directly reduce your wedding budget or improve the quality of your wedding.

In fact, sometimes just one day in advance or one day later, you can choose the most ideal hotel, book a long-awaited car, have the best master of ceremonies to preside over your wedding, and have an excellent cameraman to record the ceremony of your life, even your relatives and friends don't have to worry about handling several weddings at the same time.

Therefore, choose a day of the year that is very important and unforgettable for you, but very common for others. Like the anniversary of your first kiss. In this way, you can not only get the best service with less money, but also walk into the wedding hall with a very leisurely mood and enjoy the wedding wishes of relatives and friends. Good day, good mood, of course, you can have your cake and eat it!

2. The weather on the wedding day

Maybe you think it would be romantic to have a wedding on a rainy day? But most couples still want sunny wedding day. Whether you like light rain or sunshine, knowing the weather on the wedding day can let you know what you want and make some emergency arrangements in advance.

At present, the climate centers in some big cities can provide some special services, such as: trend prediction within 30 days; /kloc-climate forecast within 0/0 and 7 days; Climate information within 3 days, etc. , or calculate and provide annual weather forecast according to historical climate data. When you choose a wedding date, you can use it as a reference to avoid bad weather as much as possible. In addition, you can choose the corresponding service at the local meteorological station according to your own needs, and get real-time weather information on the wedding day for planning in advance.

3. Avoid the bride's menstrual period.

If the wedding day happens to be the bride's menstrual period, will it be a trouble? Therefore, we must try to avoid the bride's menstrual period. There are two ways. First of all, if the bride's physiological cycle is regular, she can calculate her menstrual period. Secondly, if it is inevitable to choose the bride's physiological cycle or her menstrual cycle is irregular and cannot be determined, you can consult a doctor 10 days before the wedding. If there are no contraindications, you can take medicine before the wedding under the guidance of a doctor, and generally you can postpone your menstrual period.

4. Consider the work plans of both parties.

Try to avoid affecting your work plan because of the wedding, because in those days of preparing for the wedding and holding ceremonies and wedding banquets, newcomers often can't concentrate on their work. Therefore, you should also refer to your annual work plan when determining the wedding date. Don't choose before or after the peak of your business trip, so that you can not only have enough holidays to spend a sweet honeymoon, but also avoid the situation that the wedding can't be held as scheduled due to work emergencies or the important work plan is affected by wedding preparations.

5. Traditional rules of "auspicious day"

China people are used to choosing an auspicious day to get married. When choosing an auspicious day, the old people usually think that it is best to have a auspicious year (there will be a auspicious year every two or three years, that is, there are two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. ) And the Mid-Autumn Festival at the beginning of the month is the most suitable month for holding a wedding. In addition, some places also pay attention to the traditional rule that parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, which means that it is not suitable to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within this month.

Step by step, determine your wedding date.

1 year 365 days, which day is your auspicious day for getting married? From now on, take out your calendar and red pencil and mark your wedding day step by step!

Step 1: Set a 90-day goal.

What style will your wedding be? Do you prefer a fresh and soft spring wedding or a passionate summer wedding? Do you prefer nostalgic autumn sentiment or romantic pure snow sentiment? According to your wedding style and your favorite wedding mood, choose the right season first! In this way, when you decide your wedding season, you find that the scope of your wedding auspicious day has been suddenly reduced from 365 days to 90 days!

Step 2: Tick off "auspicious day"

According to the calendar in our appendix, you can easily find out the "auspicious day" suitable for marriage in 2004. Combine your own and each other's requirements and pick out your "auspicious day" within 90 days! After drawing a circle, you will find that you are getting closer and closer to your goal!

Step 3: Personalized customization scheme

Next, exclude some dates that you think are inappropriate from the "auspicious day of the emperor" circled by you, and then you can choose one of them to lock a wedding date that belongs to you. Here are some methods for your reference. Of course, maybe if you have a brainwave, you can create a more fresh and interesting personalized customized plan for the auspicious day of the zodiac!

Love day

Is there your love anniversary among them? Choose such a date, casually recall these sweet times together, and tell your guests on the wedding day: What does today mean to us?

Xi shangjia Xi ri

If you want more relatives and friends to attend your wedding, you can choose some longer holidays so that even friends from other places can have time to attend your wedding.

Yes, men's day

Nowadays, it is popular to choose even-numbered days as auspicious days and consider them "yes-men". For example, choose No.22 as a metaphor for having children early, and No.6 as a symbol for getting married smoothly. Discover your special "Happy Day" carefully!

This is an auspicious day.

Do you believe in the "God created" day? Then carefully make a "wedding auspicious day sign" together, write down your chosen "quasi-auspicious day", then close your eyes and make a sincere love wish. Finally, choose a brand that says "auspicious day" from the brand. Congratulations! This will be your wedding day!