Whenever my boyfriend quarrels with us, he will turn over the past and say what happened to me, was he too narrow-minded or did I do something wrong?

On the bright side, he has been worried about your past. First, he may care about you. He doesn't care why you care about your affairs.

But care belongs to care, and sometimes this care will become a mental burden to you. I can't tell who is right and who is wrong when two people quarrel. Once people are angry, they can say anything. But it is very harmful for you that he often does this.

You might as well tell him that those things have passed and cannot be changed! I can only live a better future. If you only care about the person in the past, first of all, he is short, and short people have no vision to a great extent. He will only grasp the past, and he might as well not do what he should do now. So, I'll give you this analysis now. What do you think? Do you want a man without dignity? Do you want a selfish man who doesn't care about your feelings? Is a person who only holds on to your scars and the past without looking at the future what you want?

Just have a good talk with him, and you will break up sooner or later if you keep your feelings in your heart. If you really want to continue with him, I hope he will respect your feelings and talk it over. If he promised well, but still. You can consider leaving. Of course, there's nothing you can do if you want to be so wronged.