Choosing to get married this month is getting richer and richer.

Marriage is a very festive event, but there are also many places to pay attention to. Choosing a wedding date is also a skill. So how to choose the date of marriage? What are the marriage taboos? Let's take a look at the wedding day and get rich with Bian Xiao!

Choose this month's wedding day to become richer.

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The third month of the lunar calendar, also known as the Peach Blossom Month, is a situation in which peach blossoms are in full bloom, gorgeous and fragrant. If a woman chooses to get married in the third month of the lunar calendar, her marriage will be as colorful as a peach blossom. After marriage, someone will love her, the child will arrive within three years, and the days of poverty will never return. Women who get married in March can bring good luck, and their families will soon become rich.

Lunar May

May of the lunar calendar is a very suitable month for marriage. The most prosperous woman this month is herself, who can drive away bad luck and bring good luck. After marriage, their family life will be harmonious and happy. Both family members and friends can give them a lot of help and make their lives better and better. Most importantly, for women who get married in May, their husbands will be very developed and their children will be particularly promising.

September of the lunar calendar

September in the lunar calendar is the summer to go to Qiu Lai. This month is very suitable for women to accumulate blessings. If a woman chooses to get married in September, it will bring not only prosperity, but also good luck. No matter where they come from, they are sure to get rid of poverty and live a rich life after marriage, especially their children will be especially filial and promising, and their families are destined to be happy forever.

How to choose a wedding date?

Getting married on a certain day is a traditional custom in China. This concept has been deeply rooted in people's hearts until now. However, the life of modern people is different from that of ancient times, and the pace of life is different, so the method of choosing a day to get married also needs to keep pace with the times. Today, we continue to talk about marriage and auspicious choices.

Choosing a day, that is, "observing the day" and "choosing a day", is one of the important customs in our traditional folk culture.

Therefore, China people attach great importance to the date and time of marriage. Therefore, choosing the date before marriage is very important for the marriage of newlyweds.

As the saying goes, "everything is difficult at the beginning", and choosing an auspicious day is a good start for couples' marriage. If the beginning goes well, the next marriage will go well.

Therefore, "choosing a wedding date" cannot be taken lightly. Can't "choosing a wedding date" be solved by reading the old calendar book? Of course not.

The correct way is to combine the birth dates of two couples to determine the wedding dates of Yueji, Jiri and Zodiac. Here is a brief introduction to the relevant precautions.

The first step is to combine the fate of two people.

As the saying goes, "Give birth to a child every year and marry a woman every year." When choosing a wedding date, besides considering the horoscope of the couple, it is more important to choose the date of birth of the bride.

It is best to avoid the unfavorable wedding month of the woman and choose the favorable month. Here is a formula: "Seven welcomes chickens and rabbits, twenty-eight welcomes tigers and monkeys, thirty-nine welcomes snakes and pigs, forty welcomes dragons and dogs, fifty-one welcomes cattle and sheep, and sixty-two welcomes rats and horses."

That is, if the woman's zodiac is a chicken or a rabbit, she should choose to get married in the first month or July, and if she is a tiger or a monkey, she should choose to get married in February or August, and so on.

The second step is to choose an auspicious day and time.

After choosing the wedding month, the next step is to choose auspicious days. Here are some points to pay attention to, that is, to avoid the Three Girls' Day, that is, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of the lunar calendar every month.

Legend has it that San Niang likes to fight against Yue Lao and is bent on destroying the marriage of newlyweds.

At the same time, we should avoid the traditional "ghost festivals" such as Tomb-Sweeping Day, Magnolia Festival and Chonggong Festival, which are not suitable for happy events. At the same time, choose auspicious day to avoid the anniversary of immediate family members.

Step 3: Avoid days and times that conflict with your horoscope.

The so-called aggression

Modern people generally choose holidays to hold weddings. However, it should be noted that in the chosen holiday, in addition to facilitating the attendance of relatives and friends, it is best to consider the fate of both husband and wife, and it is best to match the fate of both husband and wife.

Experienced people know that if the chosen day is a working day, there will be many inconveniences, such as many relatives and friends can't be present.

Therefore, choosing traditional festivals can avoid the possibility that friends are inconvenient to be present. For example, Labor Day, National Day, Mid-Autumn Festival and so on. All these are festivals celebrated by the whole country. Choosing these special days is more memorable, and at the same time, through the auspicious celebration of festivals, you can add some auspiciousness and interest to your marriage.

Getting married is a very important thing in life. China people think that "carrying on the family line is the first priority", so marriage has become a kind of etiquette to inherit incense and continue human civilization.

Today, let's learn about the traditional marriage customs in China.

1. Gift-receiving: A proposal is when the man's family invites the matchmaker to come to the woman's house with a gift to express his desire to marry the other party.

Second, ask the name: if the woman accepts the dowry of the man, she agrees to this marriage. So I asked the matchmaker to exchange the names, birthdays, places of origin and other information of people close to me.

Then, men and women should exchange "eight characters" (that is, the year, month, day and time period when both men and women were born). This "eight-character" is written on a piece of red paper, about 3 cm wide and 24 cm long, with the dates of birth of both men and women on it, and some taboos.

Najib: It is the third step of marriage, which means "good luck". In China's traditional marriage, it is based on "parents' orders and matchmakers' words". After asking the names, the two sides discussed the possibility of marriage in various ways.

These activities are called "premarital marriage", which is what we now call "eight-character marriage". If you get auspicious and festive information, the man will prepare gifts for the woman's family and decide the wedding date.

Fourth, the bride price: the bride price is also called "bride price" and "bride", which means that the man needs to send the bride price to the woman's home, and the man can only marry the woman after receiving the bride price. So the traditional marriage in China is called "buying and selling marriage".

Verb (abbreviation of verb) invitation day: the invitation day is an auspicious day for the man to choose to get married, and the matchmaker informs the woman of the invitation day, which is equivalent to "going every other day" and "sending a day off" in modern times.

Wedding: Wedding is the last step of marriage, which refers to the ceremony of marrying the bride. The date of the wedding reception is determined by the date of "invitation" or "marriage". At this point, the six steps before marriage have been completed.

Matters needing attention in marriage

First, choose the taboo year of the wedding.

In which year is the wedding gift arranged, the common people are particular about it. Generally put in normal years, there is no special situation. The year without spring and the year with double spring are taboo. A year without spring means that there is no beginning of spring that year. In some places, this is called widowhood. It is obviously unlucky to avoid widowhood when getting married. The year of double spring, that is, there are two beginning of spring days in a year, is also considered unlucky, and it is easy for men and women to get married twice. There are different views on the double spring in different places. Some areas think that double spring is a good year, which means "double spring and double happiness".

Some races, such as the Bai nationality, are afraid that both men and women will get married in this animal year.

We can know from many historical books that people are forbidden to hold happy events during the period of filial piety. Holding a wedding during the funeral is not only disrespectful to the deceased, but also unlucky, which affects the fortune of the family and makes it difficult for children to have children.

Second, avoid the month when choosing the wedding date.

March, July and September of the lunar calendar coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for co-hosting happy events. "Get married for half a year in June", and June is equal to half a year. Getting married in June is a sign of "half a year for husband and wife".

Third, the anniversary of the wedding day.

In the folk, weddings, full moons and other happy events all like hap.

The homonym of four, like "death", is a taboo among the people. This number is like the thirteen taboos for foreigners. There are generally not four hotel numbers.

Six and eight are our favorites, six and six are great, and eight is wool, which makes us very happy. Liuhe's mobile phone number and license plate number are many times more expensive than ordinary ones, and the psychology of seeking luck can be seen.

"Seven does not go out and eight does not return", and some places think that seven equals eight, that is, comparison. "Going out together" means funeral, and "climbing home" is not conducive to going out on time, so July 8 is taboo.

"On July 7th, we welcome the bride and avoid festivals." In some areas of the Han nationality, people are particularly taboo to get married on July 7th, because it is the day when the weaver girl and the cowherd meet again every year. Marriage on this day is taboo, which reflects people's hope that their children will never be separated and be happy after marriage.

Nine. It is quite taboo in the music world, because some great composers in the world died after writing the ninth movement.

After the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month, people think that the immortal went to heaven and everything was forgiven. You don't have to choose a date to marry a daughter, and you don't have to choose a date to have a daughter. You have to wait until the end of the year, many people get married.

The wedding day should avoid parents' birthdays.

In traditional numerology, it is necessary to avoid the birthdays of both parents. If the wedding day is the same as the parents' birthday, it will go against them and be detrimental to their happiness.

Conclusion: You must choose the right date to get married. If you choose the wrong date, it will be bad for both husband and wife and the family. So what is the best wedding day? After reading Bian Xiao's introduction above, everyone knows! Friends who are getting married recently can have a look!