Pay attention to getting married and sleeping in bed

The wedding bed in the wedding room is indispensable. Usually, the wedding bed-making ceremony will be held the day before the wedding. Setting the bed is a very important link, and there are many places to pay attention to, which should not be underestimated.

Usually, the person who is responsible for helping the new couple to go to bed is the person commonly known as the "lucky girl". This lucky woman is usually chosen by the woman, and some are appointed by the man. This lucky woman should be a blessed person. The so-called happiness is nothing more than her parents, brothers and sisters, happy marriage and children. This well-chosen lucky girl can bring good luck to new people, including blessings to new people.

1, bed selection

Before the bed installation ceremony, the choice of bed is very particular. Usually, you will buy a new bed. According to the traditional custom, this new bed can't be placed against the doors and windows. Usually, people will put the new bed in the most harmonious place in the new house. If there are pillars in the new house, this bed should never be placed against the pillars, and it is best not to put sundries at the bottom of the new bed. This is unlucky. When the new bed is ready, a good woman can start the ceremony of making the bed.

2, the bed installation process

According to the tradition of China people, getting married is a festive event. After marriage, newlyweds must spread branches and leaves to carry on the family line. Therefore, in the process of settling down, widows and childless women are generally not allowed to enter the newlyweds' rooms. The couple themselves are not allowed to enter the new house before the wedding, and others who can enter the room are not allowed to sit on the couple's bed at will. These are all unlucky symbols in the traditional concept.

It's time to make the bed

Usually in the early morning, the bride comes in at the high tide, so look at the time of the high tide and look through the old almanac. The order of making the bed is known to the older generation, and there are such people in the general neighborhood.

4. the person who makes the bed

5. Bedclothes

Generally speaking, the bed is made by a special person. The bed needs peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds, chestnuts and other dried fruits.

Flowers: generally choose roses or lilies to play a decorative role; Wedding photos: in addition to wedding photo frames, we should also prepare some photo albums for everyone to enjoy; Candle: There must be red candles in the ancient bridal chamber. Western candlesticks are also good decorative items in modern weddings.

Fruit: dried fruit, fruit.

Snacks: These can not only entertain guests, but also add a lot of festive atmosphere to the new house.

Step 6 make the bed

Making the bed, also known as "cleaning the room", "sweeping the bed", "making the bed" or "spreading the bill", refers to a small ceremony arranged by a special person for the new house the day before the wedding, and two children are needed in the process of making the bed. Namely: smart, healthy and lovely golden couple. Also put a red envelope (200 yuan). In the process of folding the quilt, sweeping the bed, scattering items, etc., you will say auspicious words and jingles. To wish the couple peace and success, happiness and good eloquence.

7, the taboo of making the bed

In ancient times, the meaning of marriage was more about carrying on the family line and extending life. Therefore, widows or childless women can't touch bedding, bedding or even help the bride. Remember your master bedroom and don't let too many people in. In case there are too many people sitting in your new bed. Married people want them to stay away from that bed. Before the wedding, the bride and groom are not allowed to sit on the bed.

8, the process of making the bed

According to local customs, the process of making the bed is slightly different. In addition to sweeping the bed, laying Yuanyang pillows and dragon and phoenix quilts, the most familiar process should be "making the bed". "Laying an account" refers to laying dried fruits such as peanuts, longan, lotus seeds, chestnuts and Chinese dates on the wedding bed in order to obtain the life wish of "having your son early and having lotus seeds and peanuts (all children)".

9. turn over the bed

A good woman has finished the bed-making ceremony and needs the help of the golden boy to turn over. Usually choose a healthy and blessed little boy. In some areas, it is important to choose a little boy who belongs to the dragon, while in other areas, except for a little boy who belongs to the tiger. Let Xiaojin boy turn over in the couple's bed, which means wishing the couple a happy son. In the process of turning over, lucky women will also say some auspicious words, such as turning over to have a boy, turning over to be a scholar in the afterlife, turning over to have a scholar, and so on.