Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Almanac inquiry - Is there anything particular about parents being buried together?

Is there anything particular about parents being buried together?

Nothing special, but the position should be at the first or left (the left side is downward, and the specific time people stand in the same direction as the tombstone, on the left side of people, that is, on the right side when looking at the tombstone. According to the Gregorian calendar, choose the auspicious day when the deceased is buried. Accompanied by the undertaker, the relatives of the deceased first burned a small amount of yellow paper in the buried grave, commonly known as the "warm cave", to show that the deceased also had a "warm home".

Relatives of the deceased personally spread some Yin Fu soil at the bottom of the tomb, which has the functions of moisture-proof, insect-proof and urn protection. Then you can sit facing south or west and carefully place the urn. After placing the urn, you can spread gold or silver cloth on it, commonly known as "spreading gold and covering silver", which means respect for the dead and symbolizes the prosperity of the afterlife.

Graveyard burial

There are "same cave burial", "different cave burial" and "same grave and different cave burial", which are the types of different cave burial; Further, it is "buried in the same cave". This kind of joint burial is very popular in the Loess Plateau in northern China. When one of the couples dies, he will go to the cemetery first. When another man died, he dug the grave again, leaving men and women behind and stopping the coffin. A red cloth belt is placed across the mouth of the coffin, which means it is similar to the knot held by the couple at the wedding.

Among the ethnic minorities in the southwest of China, there are cases where husband and wife are buried together, such as the cliff burial in Baikuyao, Guangxi, where two bones of a man and a woman can be seen in a coffin. Burial in tombs is relatively simple. First, put the coffin of the deceased into the built tomb, then open the tomb door and put the new coffin in. The custom in He Lixia area is that when husband and wife are buried together, the coffin used by men is called dry coffin, which is slightly larger; The coffin used by women is called Kun coffin, which is slightly smaller.