Urgent! ! ! Son-in-law's question about the child's surname.

I also think that children should take their father's surname, which will not put too much pressure on his future thoughts. Imagine if a child goes to school and his classmates ask him why he takes his mother's surname. How should he answer? I think it should be an embarrassing question.

But if you haven't agreed on this matter in advance, and now your feelings are very good, then you two should negotiate well. You'd better decide for yourself not to let the old people on both sides participate in this matter, because the opinions of the old people on both sides are too subjective.