Leftover men and women's old yellow calendar

The so-called bad children in the village. When I was young, I either climbed walls or trees to catch birds. Either stealing chickens or pulling out garlic seedlings. I didn't break the shopkeeper's glass. Is to pick apples from Jia Xi. When such children have no leisure. Active in different parts of the village every day. Just like a devil in the world, he almost needs to turn the village upside down. And those honest children are always at home. Be honest at home. People in the village always praise these honest children, and they will definitely have a future when they grow up. Seeing those naughty children, I can't help cursing him. Said they must have no future when they grow up.

Wait until ten years later to see these naughty children and these honest children. This is shocking. Those so-called naughty children go home with their wives and belts, driving BMWs and wearing gold clothes. It makes people look envious. And those children who make people feel promising. On holidays, a person walks home alone with one hand and one bag. Seeing this scene, I can't help sighing. Nature makes people! A baby born in the same world The situation is very different now. It's incredible.

Therefore, people can't judge people by their appearances, and sea water can't be energetic. Never comment on the unknown. The most difficult thing to estimate is people's future and destiny. The so-called bad boy in everyone's heart. It is often those who are smart and lively. Unwilling to lag behind. A person who is brave in innovation. Therefore, after they enter the society, they are often proactive and brave in innovation. Be able to surpass yourself and often succeed. And those so-called good children, promising children. After entering the society, people are often timid in doing things, unable to make bold innovations, so it is difficult to succeed. The final result is that there should be promise but there is no promise, and those who have no promise have promise.

If you have ambition, you must marry a daughter-in-law. And those honest children. In the present society. No competitive advantage. Of course, you won't be favored by girls. Being single is inevitable. Therefore, it is better to be naughty when children are young. You can marry a daughter-in-law when you grow up.

There is a saying in the countryside that "men are not bad, women don't love them", which is very realistic!

Man, you should live with temperament and speak sweet words and sweet words. What language do you need to master a woman's heart? What action can be taken to make him happy? Let her every smile, every detail, every movement and every word be unforgettable for those women, so as to win their love. In his heart, you belong to them.

Bad boys are smart, have brains, earn money, get ahead, have money, have a rhythm of life, dress up and enjoy life, so they can all win women's happiness. In women's hearts, we must find such men, bad boys, no one to bully, happiness and security in women's hearts! So bad children can marry.

The so-called honest people are not smart enough to speak sensitively. They are easy to offend people when they say a word, and they are straightforward and have no chance to turn over. Yang Gou pulls cattle straight and straight, so he can't get along in society, enjoy life, please women, talk sweetly, actively pursue others, dress himself up, play around and pay attention to hygiene. People are very popular. Which woman likes him? So the more honest people are, the more single they are.

Almost all the "bad boys" in the village have married daughters-in-law and are honestly single. This is another strange phenomenon in rural areas in recent years. In 1950s and 1960s, poor peasants and middle peasants swept the country. At that time, the poorer they were, the more glorious they became. Poor peasants are close relatives. It seems that there is no difficulty in marrying a wife. If Hong Miao is selfless, it will attract the attention of young girls! Therefore, the "bad boy" more than 40 years ago was not as unscrupulous and confident as he is now, regardless of "the black sheep of poor and middle peasants!" Or "the land is rich and the right son of a bitch is bad!" " If you don't be a man with your tail between your legs, you will be knocked down and set foot on thousands of feet, and you will never turn over! !

Unfortunately, "the wind and water turn!" Times have changed, and today's wussy is synonymous with "incompetence", otherwise it is called "cowardice"! No girl likes this type of man! Without the support of "Laozi", it is difficult to marry a wife honestly. Even if you do your best, whether your parents will help you marry the bride to bed is a question mark! My uncle's eldest son is weak, plain, honest and clever at ordinary times, and has never caused any trouble to his parents at home. At the age of 36, I still can't get a wife. My uncle's family is rich in business, so I spent a lot of money to "buy" an aspect in our village. As a result, just one month after they got married, they ran away in infighting. Fortunately, the daughter-in-law is not good, but the in-laws are good. She said: "Fifty thousand bride price was given to her son to build a house, and she couldn't afford to get married. Even if her daughter dies, she will become a hot ghost in your family. " She drove her daughter back. Twenty years later, my uncle died and my children went to college. My honest cousin has parted ways with his wife! Let people "jump out of the fire pit" and find true love.

The reference to "bad boy" here shows that it is not a "heinous crime". The villagers often say: naughty dolls are promising! A face of innocence and timidity is doomed to be difficult to achieve great things! Bad children not only get married and have children, but also "get married and divorce" and "get married after divorce!" Parents are too tired to take care of their children at home, but bad children have no reason to "leave incense everywhere"! ! Who knew that girls nowadays like this kind of "thing"?

In rural areas, there are quite a few "bookworms" who are "honest" now. Don't criticize girls' concept of mate selection, and don't have to "learn from others" to imitate "bad children". To win a girl's heart is actually very simple: get out of the strange circle and let people know that you are not different, and your brain is really not stupid! Everything else is fate, good luck to everyone!

Ha ha! Let's talk about the experience of a handsome boy in our village playing bachelor. He looks really speechless, with white skin and big eyes, but why can't he find a wife? To put it bluntly, it is too honest and true!

Someone introduced him to an object, and the girl was quite satisfied with him, but the problem was that the boy didn't have the courage to speak after they got along for a long time, and took the initiative to ask the girl for a contact information. Girls think boys are bored and depressed.

The result was stopped by the matchmaker! Because I didn't have the courage to ask for it, the matchmaker specially asked the girl's contact information to give it to the boy. As a result, after the boy added friends, he left nothing behind, saying that he didn't know what to talk to the girl. The girl was interested in the boy, so she took the initiative to chat several times, but every time the chat content made people feel too boring, and finally chose to marry someone else.

There are several photos of boys in the back, and they all feel good at first, and then they all leave, just like this, and in a blink of an eye, they are almost in the fourth grade. It's easy to find people at home asking for the media. They introduced a post-90s generation, but their matchmaker didn't have the courage to tell her the boy's age, only that he was in his thirties, and the matchmaker didn't introduce him in detail.

Therefore, the matchmaker has repeatedly told me not to reveal my real age until the time is right, undergraduate! The two get along fairly well, and the girl is cheerful, which can drive the atmosphere between them to a certain extent. I thought there would be a after-play, so I can wait for candy!

As a result, people unexpectedly revealed their real age to girls. The reason is that he thinks he gets along well with the girl and is embarrassed to lie to her. He thought the girl would accept it, but he didn't expect her parents to agree! The girl is only in her early twenties, and you will be forty in the blink of an eye! Say what also don't let the boy old cow eat tender grass, eventually ended in failure.

Matchmaker that call a gas! I don't want to introduce the guy to anything, so! At this moment, the boy is over forty years old, he is still single, and no one wants to tell him that he has left!

This is a very interesting question. Although it is not a common phenomenon, there are many people. Let's give an example first.

Neighbor Er Ya is a very delicate girl. At the age of 20, my aunt introduced her to an object. The man's family conditions are very good, and the boys are not too handsome or too ugly. More importantly, the boy has a trade and is honest. The two met several times before they got engaged.

However, just a week before the wedding, Er Ya found her aunt and suddenly proposed to break off her marriage. She asked her why. She said: that man is like a log, not romantic at all. Her aunt said with anger and laughter, Er Ya, tell me what romance is. Can romance be eaten as food? Er Ya said: I have no interest in being with him. How can you live with him all your life? Her aunt said, where have you been? Now everything is ready and all relatives have taken it away. You mean it's over? Two ya said, don't say not married, is married, not appropriate also want to divorce. Her aunt said, if you want to say it yourself!

Er Ya left the things that the man bought and the money he gave at his aunt's house, turned around and left. I was so angry that her aunt scolded me and the second girl left without looking back.

A month later, Er Ya told her parents that she was going to marry a man in the village. This man is five or six years older than her. His mother died early, his father worked outside for many years, and the boy didn't have a proper job. When her parents disagreed, Er Ya eloped with this man. A few months later, Er Ya gave birth to a girl, and the family of three came back to recognize their relatives. Raw rice has been cooked, and parents are very helpless.

After the marriage, Er Ya's father-in-law fell ill. Not only can he not go out to work, but he also has to pay for medical treatment. Her husband didn't earn enough money for himself. Er Ya, with her children, has to farm and work nearby. Her aunt asked, Er Ya, do you regret it? Two ya said, there is nothing to regret, I have no fate with him.

The subject asked, "bad children" almost all married daughters-in-law, but honest people were single. Why? In my opinion, the so-called "bad boys" are almost all informal and eloquent people. They have high emotional intelligence, are good at trying to figure out people's psychology, like their hobbies and are easy-going. Under the same conditions, they are more active and considerate. Those honest people are generally slow and not good at communicating with others. Their advantages are invisible to others, but their shortcomings will be exposed. therefore

In love, they are no match for those "bad boys". This is probably one of the reasons.

Almost all the "bad boys" in the village have married daughters-in-law, but they are honest and single. What is the reason?

First of all, what's the difference between a' bad boy' and an honest boy? My point is:

It is related to family genes, parents' IQ and accomplishment, family education, personality and making friends! Just like a family born in a scholarly family, people come and go, and people who come and go are educated. Influenced by culture, the children of dignitaries are knowledgeable about new things in society. However, a family that produces ordinary people with its neighbors only accepts part of the knowledge about farmland and work. Different people touch them and hear different voices. Of course, their knowledge is different. They are well-informed, courageous and splash.

Second, it is related to the child's IQ. Children who know quotient are sensitive to new things, have strong memory, accept new things quickly, acquire new knowledge quickly, have strong curiosity and update knowledge quickly, while children who know quotient have slow reaction and acceptance ability and relatively weak knowledge.

Third, it is related to the child's personality. This child is naturally naughty, wants to move more, has king of the children's generosity, dares to take risks and challenges, is brave and enterprising, often bullies his peers, is complained by his neighbors' parents, and is reprimanded by his father. He is also convinced that this kind of child is smart, thinking, playful and exciting, and the children are willing to play with him.

As the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots. After entering adulthood, naughty young people like this are good teaching materials as long as they are correctly guided. If they are careless, they will easily go astray. Therefore, parents must care about their children's growth, studies and trends, and don't associate with gangsters in society in case they go astray.

The so-called "bad boys" are lively and active, good at expressing themselves, aggressive and brave in challenges. There is no shame in society. "Men are not bad and women don't love them", so "bad boys" are easy to get girls' eyes and find the other half, while good boys find girlfriends instead. That's why! ! !

My humble opinion! ! ! Welcome to comment! Thank you! !

What you said is wrong! !

There are not many "bad children" in the village. The income of these families is relatively stable and can only be regarded as the middle level. Their children are willing to go out to work in big cities, and the income of more than 60 thousand a year is not a problem We don't talk about the amount of bride price here, but only give it to the woman's family moderately, so that it is easier for boys to get married.

Poor men and women are willing to get married. These boys, whose parents died early, had no schooling, no employment expertise and no "noble people" to guide and help him. Their economic income is low and their quality of life is not high. No girl wants to marry the poor.

(3) Don't marry a special character. Some boys met on a blind date for the first time and liked it very much, but girls didn't like him. Sure enough, it is "no fate." None of the girls I met on blind date liked it. Therefore, I gave up the idea of getting married

There are many men and women left. There are "bachelors" and "leftover women" in rural areas, and the lack of psychological guidance is one of the great reasons. Freedom of marriage and love is no longer appropriate, so men and women should be listed as "citizens' obligations"

With so many experts in China, they should come out and take two steps to tell everyone how to solve the bachelor problem.

Indeed, all the "bad children" in the village have married daughters-in-law, but they are honest and single. This is reality, and the theme is correct.

Xiao 'an, the son of neighbor Lao 'an, is 30 years old and has not married yet. He is so anxious that Lao An can't sleep at night. He tried every means, entrusted many matchmakers and dated many times, once with a yellow one and twice with a pair of yellow ones. It is really urgent.

What kind of person is Ann? Ann is not handsome, but not bad, except that she is too honest and foolish, very shy and shy. She dared not look up at the big girl, blushing and stuttering, and didn't know what to say or do. In rural terms, Ann is an honest pimple.

Xiao An is an expert who makes a living by running time. He doesn't smoke, drink, gamble, go whoring or steal. In the eyes of the villagers, Xiao An is a "five good" man, who has a good influence in the village and enjoys a good reputation.

Xiao An doesn't spend money indiscriminately, knows how to honor his parents, goes out to work every year, and pays all the money to his parents when he comes back, buying them clothes and eating and drinking. Parents are very happy and always praise their children's understanding and filial piety.

However, such a kind, filial, sensible and obedient child, Xiao An is very unpleasant, and no girl has a crush on him. Is it too good for Ann? Maybe. Isn't Ann bad enough? It is also possible.

Men are not bad, women don't love them. This sentence is true and practical in Xiao 'an. It turns out that those "bad men" are very popular with women, but those "good men" women don't like them. Why? Next, let's see what kind of people are "good men" and "bad men".

To put it bluntly, "good people" are honest people. This person is honest, cautious, dumb, shy and very shy. When he sees a woman, his heart beats faster and his face turns red. He is ashamed to look up, has no sweet words, doesn't understand women's amorous feelings, won't please women, and doesn't like flirting with women. Such a man is too serious and orthodox, and lacks the methods and skills to fall in love with women. There is no flattery, only a kind and honest heart. This kind of man can't keep up with the development of the times and has been eliminated by the times. Women don't like this kind of man, and it is inevitable that honest people can't marry a wife.

The "bad guys" mentioned here are not bad guys who are morally corrupt and do bad things, but people who are smart, articulate, sweet-talking, have it both ways and resourceful. Such men are bold and cautious, sweet-talking, understand women's hearts, vote for women's hobbies, and speak well according to women's temperament.

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This phenomenon is very common in rural areas.

People often say: "Men are not bad, women don't love them", and bad children are more likely to find partners. It may also be that honest children are not good at expressing themselves. Some boys are naturally shy and blush when talking to girls. If boys are not very good, it is difficult to catch up with girls by this.

At present, there are more men than women. Whoever can express himself and actively pursue girls will have a chance to find someone. If you don't have this ability, you can only hope to find someone through blind date. At present, most rural girls either work in cities or go to school in cities. If they meet a boy who pursues her and all the conditions are good, they will fall in love. Do honest boys still have a chance?

In 20 13, we got a female college student. She is short and plain. At that time, a production director in our field had no object. The director wants to fix two people up and often arranges them to work together. Our director is also willing to spend money and buy a lot of things for girls. Because he is not good at expressing himself, he didn't say a few words to the girl. Girls won't talk to him either.

Girls often chat with my partner. My partner is also a little boy, in his twenties. He is from Sichuan and has a glib tongue. Later, although there was no place to be an object, the enthusiasm was not an ordinary colleague relationship.

In fact, honest children are very reliable. Although there is no rhetoric, they are solid and capable. After marriage, they can devote themselves wholeheartedly to the family. It should be a good choice for girls to find such a boyfriend.

Almost all the "bad boys" in the village have married daughters-in-law, but they are honest and single. Why? This should be the sentence, men are not bad women do not love.

My home is in the countryside, and I have the most say in this issue. Our village is a big village with a population of 18000. It is the seat of the town government, and all aspects of the conditions can be said to be superior to the surrounding small villages. However, there are one or two hundred young people over the age of 30 in our village.

However, there is a strange family. Those "bad children" who are out of tune in the eyes of the old people have brought their beautiful women home early, and some even changed them several times. And those honest children in the mouth of the old people are all, but they can't find a wife, while their parents are frowning and sighing all day.

Times have changed. After 50 years, people's ideas have changed dramatically. Fifty years ago, when someone's daughter looked for her husband's family, they all asked people to ask if the young man was honest and upright. Who wants to marry his daughter to those naughty boys who are crazy all day? Isn't that pushing a girl into a fire pit?

Now almanac doesn't work, men are not bad, women don't love it, and slutty, lazy and greedy women have become hot cakes. Actually, the girls don't want to see it. The world has really changed, making a fortune by cheating and being content to let yourself die of poverty. Deserve that honest people's children are single, blame them for their untimely birth!