My boyfriend is Japanese and we want to get married next year.

Engaged.

1. You need a "matchmaker" before you get married, which is called Zhongfu in Japanese.

The matchmaker goes to the man's house to greet his parents and get the "dowry", and then sends it to the woman's house to greet his parents.

Take back the "woman's gift" and give it to the man. After the man's parents receive the gift money, they write a receipt and give it to the woman's home through the matchmaker.

2. The Japanese name of the engagement is "Jiena (ゆぃのぅ)", and an auspicious day should be chosen for the engagement ceremony. There is also a lunar calendar in Japan, which reads

"Daan, friends take the lead, win first, lose first, open your mouth and kill out" and so on.

Generally, you choose a day other than "death, first responsibility, bare mouth" to get engaged.

The simplest engagement is that men and women eat together and the matchmaker is present.

Engagement is usually half a year before marriage, so that the woman's parents have a psychological endurance process.

5. The bride price is generally

① books, ② iron paper, ③ gifts. 4 J.J. ⑤ dried cuttlefish. 6. Khumbu. All landowners hemp. Eight white landless fans.

9 wine

Wedding.

1 Wedding expenses: 3 million yen (usually in the hotel)

2 Among them: the venue is 6,543,800+0,000, the groom's costume is 200,000, the bride's costume is 350,000, the flowers at the venue are 6,543,800+0.5 million, the photos are 6,543,800+0.5 million, and the videos are 6,543,800+0.5 million.

Food and other expenses. 654.38+00000 (increase or decrease according to the number of guests)

3. Wedding ceremony expenses (inside the temple): 65,438+0-300,000 yen (wearing traditional Japanese wedding dresses).

At the wedding reception, the bride and groom should each prepare a short speech "the wedding speech".

Both parties buy rings before the wedding reception.

As for the layout and etiquette of the wedding venue, you can entrust the wedding banquet company, so don't worry too much.