What is the pressure of marriage? Be prepared.

In some places, the dowry prepared by the woman will be called a burden, so it is not surprising to hear "pressing the burden". Burden is actually a dowry, and the woman will prepare the burden in advance. When you deliver your luggage, you will also find someone to press it. It also means to protect the dowry and let it reach the man's house smoothly. Therefore, the dowry must be prepared, and the man's family will have more face when turning over the baggage.

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Burden means giving a dowry. The purpose of giving betrothal gifts is to show the economic strength of the woman's family and strive for her position in the husband's family. Generally, the number of packages is six or eight, which means auspiciousness, and the number of things in each package is two, which means pairs, and it is also a blessing to the newlyweds.

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The things in the wedding bag are also exquisite. Generally, there are 2 sets of underwear, 2 sets of thermal underwear, 2 sets of down jackets, 2 sets of bedding, 2 boxes of towels, 2 washbasins and 2 thermos bottles in the bag. In some places, things are divided into two packages, which are wrapped by the bride's parents in red cloth with patterns such as Yuanyang playing in the water or dragons and phoenixes appearing auspicious. The content is the bride's wedding dress, wedding shoes, prepared headdress, double happiness, red dragon and phoenix, etc. These are for the bride, and we need four apples and happy money.

Men and women have different burdens.

First of all, there are two kinds of luggage when you get married, one is prepared by your mother's family and the other is transferred by your husband's family. The luggage of the bride's family is usually put in a red box. The luggage of the husband's family will be rich, representing the money of children and grandchildren, and the money of the bride's family represents the money of pressing the box.

The husband's family turned over the luggage to give a red envelope.

When the woman talks about dowry, that is, when the luggage is delivered to the man's house, she will find someone to weigh it. The man's family received a dowry, calling it "turning over the baggage" and giving red envelopes to those who pressed the baggage. Moreover, in some areas, more red envelopes will be given until those who have the burden are satisfied. The person who presses the luggage should be determined according to the quantity of the luggage. Generally, there should be one person pressing the luggage. Of course, if there are many people who are burdened, don't be too difficult for the man's family. Just give a red envelope once.