The difference between mothering banquet and Huimen banquet.

The difference between a mother-in-law banquet and a mother-in-law banquet is that the mother-in-law banquet is to go home to visit parents, and the mother-in-law banquet also needs to thank the matchmaker.

The difference between a mother-in-law banquet and a mother-in-law banquet is that the mother-in-law banquet is to go home to visit parents, and the mother-in-law banquet also needs to thank the matchmaker. In the wedding leave custom of the Han nationality, there is a custom of holding a return banquet to visit parents, that is, on the third, sixth, seventh, ninth, tenth or full moon after marriage, the son-in-law returns to her mother's house with gifts to pay New Year greetings to her parents and relatives.

Mother-in-law banquet means that the newlyweds bring gifts to the woman's house on the third day of their marriage, and the woman's house needs to prepare a banquet at this time. The back-door banquet has the significance that the daughter does not forget the kindness of her parents. Generally, the bride's family holds a banquet and the new son-in-law takes a seat. Mothering banquets are usually held at noon. After visiting relatives, the man must give the matchmaker a gift to express his gratitude.

The mother-in-law banquet we usually say is usually held in the woman's home. Every place has its own customs, so their types are different. In ancient times, because of the low status of women, in COSCO, there was no wedding when girls got married. Provincial wedding banquets are now more popular, and most families will invite relatives and friends to the banquet.

Now, in a big city like Shanghai, the treatment of wedding banquets for provincial relatives is just like wedding banquets. Strictly speaking, the mothering banquet hosted by many people in the industry can't be called the mothering ceremony at all. Mothering the Mothers is the last chapter of the traditional wedding ceremony in China. If it is really made, it will lose its real cultural connotation and significance.

Taboo of returning to dinner

On the day when you return to your parents' home after marriage, you must follow your new husband back to your new home before sunset. If you have to live in your parents' house, you need to sleep in separate rooms on the night you return to your parents' house to avoid conflicts with people in your parents' house.

Although the back door banquet is not as grand as the wedding banquet, the bride and groom also need to dress up. The bride at the back door banquet can't wear a wedding dress, because the wedding dress is worn at the wedding. If wearing a wedding dress at the back door banquet means that the bride has been returned by the man's family, that's not good.