In life, how to persuade the defeated wife to accept her heart?

A man who marries a prodigal woman will only lower his living standard and make a mess of his family. Women who spend money indiscriminately have no idea that money is hard to come by and will not be frugal. They are extremely selfish and just want to make themselves happy by spending money. This kind of woman will only lose all the money in the family. There is a woman in our village who is like this. Her family is very poor, and she has to raise three children. Only her husband goes out to work, but she doesn't know how to be frugal. Finally, the children have long since dropped out of school to work. Men must pay attention to the following points when they meet the prodigal wife.

First, if your wife spends money lavishly, don't give her financial power.

Men should be careful in marriage. When he meets a woman who has lost her family, don't give her all her salary, because she can't manage money at all. You can give her a fixed living allowance for one month and limit her consumption, so that your wife won't spend money lavishly. If she quarrels with you because of the living expenses, it means that she doesn't care about your money at all, and you will never live a rich life.

Second, the husband must set an example and let his wife know that money is hard to come by.

As a husband, you should tell your wife more about your hard work in making money, let her understand your difficulties and change the nature of your failure. As long as a woman really loves you, she will save money for you and will never spend money indiscriminately. So you'd better communicate with your wife. If you want a better family life, you must learn to make money. For example, you can set a goal together and fight for buying a house together. When she has the motivation in her heart, she won't spend money indiscriminately.

Third, let the wife find a job and let her understand the hardships and difficulties of making money.

If a woman doesn't go out to work for a long time, she won't feel the hardships at all, so you'd better find a job for your wife and exercise yourself. Let her know that every penny is hard-won, and you have to spend it on the cutting edge to be worthy of your own efforts. In short, husband and wife should understand each other, making money is a matter for two people, and one person can't bear it. Only by putting ourselves in the shoes can we have a happy marriage.