Do you agree that the village's marriage custom reform "does not hold banquets, but treats guests with rice noodles"?

First, let's look at the background of this topic. Jiangsu Xinyi has started this action to control the wedding ceremony from the source. There is no banquet at the wedding, and the guests only give a bag of rice or noodles. There are mixed feelings about this provision. Some people strongly agree with it, while others strongly oppose it, showing a confrontation between the two sides. From my personal point of view, I think this change may be a bit formalistic. After all, it is difficult to implement and it has not fundamentally solved the problem.

The rationality of not hosting a banquet is the same as that of most people. How many weddings can a person have in his life? Wedding is a major event in life, so it is reasonable for friends and relatives to get together to witness the happiest moment in our lives. Whether as a man or a woman, a wedding is an unforgettable and precious memory. When we rummaged through wedding photos in our memory one day, all we could imagine was some rice and white flour.

It is not impossible for guests to send rice and noodles, but as a newlywed, can you finish all the rice and noodles in the room? Storage is also a problem, so it is very likely that the final outcome will be that these rice noodles will be circulated to the market in other ways, which means that these gifts will eventually be sold, so it is better to give money.

Before the problem is fundamentally solved, weddings are not allowed, and guests only send rice noodles, which makes no sense from the custom. The state of etiquette pays attention to reciprocity, and the one who comes and goes to the world wins the world. Most people have a lot of money now. Today, the members we used to go out with have turned into a bag of rice and sent it back, and it is still a small bag. How much did it cost? Has anyone done the math? Therefore, those who often go out with members are unwilling to accept this change.

In a word, I can't agree with this kind of marriage custom reform in this village.