Why do people contradict each other?

People generally recognize themselves, that is, they look at problems from their own standpoint and always think they are right without knowing it, thus falling into a strange circle of thinking and being unable to extricate themselves. Generally speaking, the reason is related to this person's knowledge level, experience, personality and mentality. A person with rich experience, high educational level, cheerful personality and open mind will see the problem comprehensively. He can see the problem not only from his own perspective, but also from others' perspective. Therefore, decisions and ideas made under normal circumstances are more easily accepted by everyone, and it is not easy to fall into a strange circle of thinking. To solve this problem, we should start from many aspects and improve our knowledge level, which is conducive to improving our cognitive level; If you have experienced many things, you will have the ability to solve problems from different aspects; Try to be sunny and have less negative energy, which will not affect your thinking; Open-minded, open-minded and tolerant of people with different opinions. All these are helpful to solve the problem of thinking cycle.