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How about 202 1 the tenth day of the seventh lunar month? It's a good day. Is it suitable for engagement?

Seventh lunar month

The seventh month of the lunar calendar is the seventh month of the lunar calendar and the first month of autumn, which is Qiu Meng.

The nicknames of July in the lunar calendar are Qiao Yue, Guayue, Lanyue, Qiu Lan, Zhao Qiu, Xinqiu, Shouqiu, Xiangyue, Qiu Meng and Early Autumn.

Is 2021July 10 suitable for engagement?

Lunar calendar: 202 1 10th day of July; Gregorian calendar: 202 1, August 17, Tuesday, killing the east with rabbits.

Suitable for the old yellow calendar

Alliance to collect sacrifices, pray, build soil, break ground and bury.

Taboo of the old yellow calendar

Get married and open the market

Judging from the 10th day of July in 20021lunar calendar, this day should contain related matters, so it is a suitable day for engagement.

What are the folk customs of engagement?

First, the same surname does not get married.

Unmarried men and women with the same surname did not get married, which began in the early Western Zhou Dynasty. In the Spring and Autumn Period, people further realized that intermarriage with the same surname would cause abnormal infertility of offspring, but intermarriage with the same surname still occurred from time to time among nobles. After the Warring States period, the surname Shi, after the Han Dynasty, is not divided, and it is often inevitable to share the same surname without marriage. In the Tang Dynasty, intermarriage with the same surname followed the ancient system and was prohibited. The Ming and Qing Dynasties became a region-based society, replacing the blood-based clan. Therefore, the Ming law regulations and the Qing law regulations are divided into two parts: the same surname and the same clan. On the surface, it is forbidden for two people to get married. In fact, people with the same surname and different clans can get married. It is only forbidden to marry within the same family.

Second, he Lange

He Lang songs are very popular in Xing 'an, northeast Guangxi. After visiting the bride and having dinner, relatives and friends gather around the groom in the hall to sing He Lang songs. Impromptu congratulations, but also joking and humorous words. Friends and relatives sing a song and the groom drinks a glass of wine. Sing till midnight and send the groom into the bridal chamber. The female singer waited behind closed doors, and the men and women sang "Open the Door Song" in pairs before opening the door. Singing noisily after entering the door, from one glass of wine to ten glasses of wine to congratulate the groom, and the groom drinks from 1 to 10 in turn (male singers can drink instead of winners). Then sing "Sex Wine" and the couple have a drink together. Finally, the singer closed the door and sang the song of closing the door to end the wedding.

Third, sit in the red room.

Sitting in red hall is popular in quanzhou county, northeast Guangxi. Young men and women worship their ancestors at home and are admonished by their elders on the eve of marriage. The bride wears red ornaments and is accompanied by her classmates. She sat in the main room, singing "Weeping Wedding Song" softly, remembering her parents' kindness and expressing sisterhood. Sisters told the bride to be filial to the elderly and live in harmony with her brothers and sisters, and praised the groom for his handsome and hardworking. When the bride expresses her unhappy thoughts, the sisters comfort her in many ways. Singing late into the night, Yiyi said goodbye and presented gifts. The groom is also accompanied by his classmates sitting in his main hall, and is taught by his elders to be diligent and keep the house and obey the rules. After the teaching, the old man retired, and the boys joked and chased the groom, and the joy didn't end until late at night.