Chao shui Lao Huang Li

With you, get to know the world seriously for the fourth time1.

— ? Zheng Wen? —

Life is about waiting for the right time to act. So, relax You're not behind and you're not ahead. Everything is on time in your own time zone arranged by fate.

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I haven't read much recently for the simple reason that I have no stock in my stomach and I can't dig it out dry. I really need reading to supplement my spiritual food, so I close my eyes and read. I have read many books recently, including economics, financial management, psychology, marketing and astrophysics.

Today, I will briefly talk about my views on life from the above angles. Of course, it is also a reflection on yourself. Sometimes when I think about it, I feel that my life is quite bleak, and there is a reason why I am not as good as others. What all don't want to pay, what all don't want to work hard, how can have a big harvest? what can I say? People who cheat life will eventually be cheated by life.

I loved reading miscellaneous books when I was a child. At that time, I read Germination, Fireworks and New Concept. At that time, I thought the new concept was like Pandora's box. I still remember the excitement when I read a good article.

"The afternoon sun shines through the glass window and falls on the edge of the teacup, reflecting the whiteness of ivory porcelain."

I often wonder how warm the heart of a person who can write such a sentence should be. So I especially hope that one day I can write sentences that can make others feel warm like the author.

What I regret most in recent years is that I didn't spend time reading more miscellaneous books in the past. The more you work, the more extravagant you feel about studying. Fortunately, although I took some detours, I have always gone through ten years with personal thinking, and finally I can appreciate a little qualitative change brought by quantitative change. Of course, when I have a deeper understanding of all this, I feel more and more that I don't know much.

Going back to the miscellaneous books I read recently, whether it is economics or financial management, including psychology, marketing, astrophysics, etc., there are potential life cycles.

Economics pays attention to economic cycles, such as stock market and smile curve. Financial management pays attention to long-term fluctuating income, such as annualized rate of return and credit card cycle rate; Psychological society has a life cycle of curiosity, attraction, intimacy, indifference and separation; Astronomy and physics pay attention to the unknowns and angles of celestial bodies, as well as the rotation period; Even in China's zodiac calendar, there is a saying that time flies, luck turns, and luck is lucky.

You will find that from a cyclical point of view, all fields are particularly exciting. If individual life is also studied as an object, human life is no different from many fields above, and it has also experienced cycles of rebirth, development, prosperity, decline and death.

Every stage has something that should be done in every stage. Sometimes it's not a good thing to grow too fast, just like "trying to grow a seedling to make it grow faster". After the individual develops at a speed beyond his control, he needs to be forced to slow down in the next stage, just like the fluctuation of tides and the profit and loss of the moon, and will eventually return to the periodic line that should exist, and then gradually enter the decline stage.

There is a three-or four-minute short film abroad called "You are in your time zone". It touched me a lot at that time, but now that I think about it carefully, it seems to be true. From the whole life cycle, it is really not worth mentioning, because it only accounts for a small part of the whole long life.

I did walk slowly before, but let's comfort ourselves that I am laying the foundation and taking root. It seems that people will suddenly grow up after experiencing some great changes, and the space and time for independent thinking play an important role in this. Things that I couldn't figure out before, now I suddenly figured it out, and things that I couldn't figure out before are now slowly understood.

Under the background of life, I remember a master said that one should run for life as a work of art, or try to be a better self in successful inspirational learning, including seeing oneself psychologically, tolerating oneself and achieving oneself; And more metaphysics, mystery and fate. It seems that all these imply a line, a line about individual life.

Although people can't make their own choices at birth, it seems that the goal after birth is to learn how to be themselves and become truly independent and complete individuals.

It may not have a lot of money, it may not be successful, it may not be rich, and it may have to face many trivial things in life. But when it comes, its significance is to let you see yourself in the collision with life, learn to appreciate the true meaning in the plain life, and learn to truly understand the peaceful philosophy of life from three meals a day.

There seems to be no fairness or unfairness, and everyone has their own karma to face. Different people face different tests. Some people are trapped by themselves, some by money, some by marriage, some by career, some by emotion, some by health, some by family, some by brothers and sisters ... Life is a huge cage, but we are all trapped animals.

Sometimes people feel unfair, but what is fair? What is unfair? Where is the answer? Are you willing to exchange health for money? Are you willing to trade your career for your family? Think about it, you look at the success of others, but you don't see the painful side behind them. What you can't see is the happiness you have.

We often stare at what others want, but forget to look down at what we already have. There is only one purpose for us to practice in this world, and that is to be ourselves. As for what kind of practice we have to experience, that is different. It is really nonsense to pursue absolute fairness between these originally different individuals.

When you learn to focus on yourself and patiently carve yourself into a work of art, you will enter a state of flowing life. You will stop looking at others, you will slowly immerse yourself in polishing your own world, and you have forgotten the passage of time.

You will feel that this life is extremely short, and you will feel that every day you are experiencing now is like a new life.

Well, this brainstorming article is coming to an end here. Every time I feel it again, I will be half-dead. However, how can we bow our heads and give up so easily?

We will see how much dry goods we can eat in the next update. After all, it's not as easy as we thought. I used to be stupid and naive, and I am grateful that you didn't abandon me here. We will continue to solicit opinions next year.

20 18 will be over in 23 days. Generally speaking, this year is a particularly fulfilling year, with no regrets and more feelings than ever before. Looking back on the long article written on New Year's Day last year, it can only be said to be a beginning. On New Year's Day this year, I want to draw a full stop for myself.

As for whether the future is a period or a sigh, who knows? I don't want to. Life has always been like this.

Above. Good night, everyone.

|| Who is the author?

Xiling Little Lion, a gifted advantage interpreter, a national third-level psychological counselor, a strange female nerve with a brain hole, a lifelong learner, wandering on the edge of the world, omitting life. There are temperature, healing and secrets here, and I want to take you into a different soul.