Why are women prone to premarital sex? What do women think of cohabitation before marriage?

In real life, people's attitude towards sex life is as open as in the past. Nowadays, many people will have sex before marriage, and women are prone to have premarital sex. Women will think it is loyalty to love. So, why are women prone to premarital sex? Why do women accept cohabitation before marriage? Come and have a look.

1, reasons for premarital sex

1, pursuing the so-called "new" way of love

In 1990s, China society entered a high-level, fast-paced and colorful period, and its lifestyle and love style were constantly changing. Some young people mistakenly believe that the way to change love in the 1990s is to have casual sex.

Some women say, "Traditional love is incomplete. True love should be broad. Since I love him, I can give him anything. " "Love should set the loved one free, so why wait until after marriage?" "Already in the 1990s, amorous feelings are boring. I want to walk in front of history "and so on.

Under the psychological control of chasing new trends, they quickly entered love from first love and rose from marginal to core.

Ecstasy hugs, kisses and caresses arouse the strong impulse of sexual physiological instinct, which makes reason irresistible. According to a survey, 44.67% of women have had multiple sexual relations within half a year, of which 50.33% said they would like to have sexual relations, and 80.33% thought it was a personal problem.

According to China's sexual ethics, the most intimate sexual behaviors between men and women during love can only be kissing, snuggling and caressing. Sexual intercourse can only occur if the marriage relationship is protected by law. Arbitrary "trendy" behavior is a sign of lack of responsibility.

2. Promote various concepts of sexual freedom.

In recent years, with the influx of western cultural thoughts and the occasional flooding of sex culture in China, the traditional morality with profound cultural accumulation has been impacted. Some people blindly advocate various western concepts of sexual freedom and have a strong sense of self to break through the so-called traditional moral concepts.

Some women said: "We are facing the wave impact from all directions, even the most rational women will be confused." The moral music box appeased the unbelievers. Now some people resist the painful soul and body, and their sexual concept and primitive instinct need to be equated.

Therefore, some women think that "once they are mature, satisfying their desires is a physiological need." Some people say: "As long as you love happiness", others say: "What are you afraid of when you are pregnant? There is no sin in sharing a room. " "A woman is a complete woman only after abortion. “

In the survey, 32.67% of women think that "chastity is not very important", 19.7% of women don't care at all after sharing a room, and say "that's it", and so on.

When their thoughts change, their behavior will also change. When their love is still in a state where they don't know how to drive the boat of life rationally, they are destroyed by desire, and they have sex prematurely that should not have happened. Some people have sex with their boyfriends regularly, and some people have a hunch that they will not get married in the end, but this special relationship remains the same as before. The distorted sexual concept makes the distorted sexual behavior out of control, resulting in "irresponsible consequences."

3. Satisfy the curiosity and exploration of "sex"

In today's cultural environment, sex has gradually torn off the hidden veil. For some women, it is no longer "talking about transsexuality" and being ashamed to talk about it, but talking about desire is as relaxed and normal as talking about appetite.

However, because many books and publications focus on the introduction of sexual organs and sexual life content, but lack of sexual psychology and sexual morality education, coupled with the increase of neutral aesthetic scenes in movies and TV, as well as the phenomenon of hugging and kissing on roads and streets, this cultural atmosphere has deepened and realized the hazy consciousness and curiosity about sex in girlhood.

I am grateful for my boyfriend's appreciation and love.

Although they also know that women's chastity is very important and should never be given easily, they can't hold the line of defense under the constant encouragement of their boyfriends' admiration and love. Some people have made great sacrifices, because their boyfriends care more about themselves and help themselves greatly in their study and life, or because their boyfriends have solved many difficulties for their relatives. I often feel uneasy and grateful.

When her boyfriend asked for sex, he was worried that refusing would hurt his heart, so he regarded satisfying her boyfriend's sexual request as a reward for thanking him for his kindness. This situation accounts for 18.3% in the survey.

5. Eliminate her boyfriend's worries about his peace of mind.

Some women feel that their boyfriends meet their own mate selection conditions and are ideal "handsome men". When they fell in love at first sight, they felt that there was no such store after this village, and they took the initiative in the process of love.

However, for some men, the more active a woman is, the more self-esteem he has and even anxiety about her. He is too cautious and ambiguous.

In order to show their sincerity, some women make promises to each other in a hurry, while others take such so-called immature and unwise clumsy actions, that is, "tying men's hearts" and "locking love with sex" so as not to be abandoned by men.

Step 6 upgrade your relationship

Many women regard "sex" as the standard to measure love, and think that only sex can maintain and develop love. Some people think that premarital sex is the procedural requirement of love and the only way. If it happens early, the relationship can be determined as soon as possible, so that love can be upgraded and deepened, and the cohesion of both sides can be strengthened. Under the control of this concept of sharing, they soon gave everything they had.

2. Diseases to be prevented before marriage

1, beware of genital malformation

Among them, abnormal hymen, masculine external genitalia, female private parts atresia, no female private parts, no uterus, saddle uterus and so on. All belong to female genital malformation. Although genital deformity does not mean that they can't have children, at least compared with normal women, the pregnancy journey of women with genital deformity is much more difficult.

In order to get pregnant successfully after marriage, it is suggested that women should pay attention to physical examination, such as TCT examination and STD examination. If there are any problems, they should be treated in time. If there are no problems, they should give themselves a reassurance.

Step 2 be alert to amenorrhea

Amenorrhea, in layman's terms, means not menstruating. Women all know that menstruation indicates that this woman has the ability to conceive a baby. If amenorrhea occurs, it means that it is difficult for women to get pregnant.

The harm of amenorrhea here refers to non-physiological amenorrhea, but secondary amenorrhea. It is mainly caused by severe anemia, diabetes or long-term tension, fear and other factors, which will lead to amenorrhea. In order to get pregnant successfully in the future, we must check it as soon as possible and then treat it according to the symptoms, so as to keep you away from amenorrhea.

Step 3 be alert to bad breath

If a woman looks beautiful and looks like a goddess, but she has bad breath, if you say man, will you be interested in this kind of woman? I believe many people will not. For this reason, a woman with bad breath must be treated in time before marriage, otherwise your "bad smell" will scare him away when you meet your male god.

If it is bad breath caused by stomach heat, it is recommended to eat less spicy and hot food and clear stomach fire in time.

If bad breath is caused by constipation, it is recommended to develop the habit of defecation, drink plenty of water, fresh fruits and vegetables and coarse grains every day, and it is best to develop the habit of drinking water on an empty stomach after getting up in the morning. In addition, persistent exercise can make the organs of the body move, which can accelerate the peristalsis of the large intestine, stimulate defecation and help you defecate.

If bad breath is caused by staying up late, it is recommended to go to bed early every day, because poor sleep for a long time will lead to gastrointestinal dysfunction, and bad breath will follow.

Finally, Bian Xiao reminded me that if you don't want to smell when you open your mouth, you should brush your teeth carefully every day, prepare some chewing gum on your body, and take it out and chew it when you feel the smell in your mouth. This will not only drive away bad breath, but also move your teeth.