What should I pay attention to when choosing a wedding date?

1, select Runnian Runyue. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year. 2. Avoid 379. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for holding happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month, that is, the August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for holding a wedding. 3. avoid killing three mothers. According to legend, Yue Laosan did not lead the red line for San Niang, which prevented her from getting married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month. 4. Marriage and date selection method. The principle of choosing a wedding date is to take the bride's date of birth as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries by the line". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems or even divorce in the married marriage; On the contrary, it is good luck. 5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays. In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month. 6. Real wedding day. If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it's best to do it in these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day. 7. Good days and auspicious days. Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated according to the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi. We should consider the actual situation of both sides' work and study. If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in the major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day" when the good news comes. 9. Consider the reality of two families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly, relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene. 10 We should consider the physical condition of both sides. If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange marriage, but to make timely diagnosis and treatment and consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the woman's opinion. 1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays. It may be wise if the wedding date coincides with holidays. The advantages of this are: unforgettable; Newly-married people put on holiday clothes to add spice; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home and celebrate the festival. However, many new people get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.