Taboos and pressures in choosing a wedding date

Taboos and pressures in choosing a wedding date

Choosing a wedding date is very important, because it is only once in a lifetime, and there are usually many details about the wedding date. If the choice is not good, it will have an impact on the couple's wealth. The following are the taboos and pressures of the wedding date.

Taboos and notes on choosing a wedding date 1 1. Don't choose the first day.

1, the first day and fifteenth day should not be used as wedding days as far as possible, because most of the first day and fifteenth day are sacrificial days, and the incense is heavy and the yin is heavy, so it is not suitable as an auspicious day for marriage.

2. There is also a saying that "On the 5th, 14th and 23rd day of the lunar calendar, Yan Wang and Lao Zi don't go out", which is said to be extremely dangerous on such days as the lunar calendar.

3, in addition, about the auspicious day of marriage, folk also have a formula to describe:

Immortals stay for thirteen days and must take action to prevent more losses; All buildings and constructions will be fierce if they are not stolen by fire;

Marriage is not suitable, and it will be unlucky if it doesn't end; Life was born on this day. You are too tired to lose it.

If they are still buried on this day, future generations will beg for food; Shangguan went to work that day, and the thief was very worried and dissolved.

1 month 13, February 1 day, March 9, April 7, May 5, June 2, July 1 day, July 19, August 27 and September 25.

Tips: This 13 day must not be used for choosing a day, remember! Remember!

Second, eight taboos in choosing a wedding date.

1, you can look at the almanac. Generally speaking, the days that are conducive to marriage will be marked in the yellow calendar. You can choose auspicious days and avoid unlucky days.

2. The seventh month of the lunar calendar is also called "Ghost Moon". This month is generally not suitable for marriage, so we should avoid it. Things that are not suitable for marriage before and after Tomb-Sweeping Day.

3. In the old age, if you get married, you need to choose a good day. You can choose the lunar calendar or noon, and the day will be better.

Generally speaking, it is very important not to celebrate the zodiac on the selected day. If one of two people is a mouse, don't choose to get married in the afternoon.

5. If the animal signs of both parties are a little incongruous, it can be solved when choosing the date. If one person is a mouse and the other is a rabbit, it is a punishment in the zodiac. Therefore, if you want to choose a favorable date to remedy it, you can generally choose a continuation date to match the marriage, which will play a positive role.

6. Avoid the birthdays of couples, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If both parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

7. There were auspicious classes in ancient times, but not many in modern times, but generally the above five basic principles cannot be changed. Good days tend to be smooth and marriages are relatively smooth, while bad days are often full of conflicts, which will also have an impact on future marriages.

8. Widowhood year means that there is no solar term in beginning of spring in a year, so people have the saying that you can't get married without spring. However, from the point of view of Monday school, this problem is not too big.

Taboos and pressures in choosing a wedding date II. How to choose a wedding date

1, mainly female, both male and female.

One of the criteria for choosing a wedding date is to take the bride's date of birth as the dominant factor, refer to the dates of birth of both men and women and other people, and try to choose the auspicious days of each other, such as First Lady's Day and Noble Moon Day.

As the saying goes: "As soon as a child is born, a woman will get married in one year", which shows the key to a woman's wedding date. If this standard is confused or ignored, it will cause problems and even divorce in married life, so it must not be ignored.

2, filing and wedding time should be separated.

When you decide to separate the filing from the wedding ceremony, everything is to choose an auspicious day. If you want to choose, you should hold it on the auspicious day of the zodiac according to the traditional etiquette knowledge of picking up relatives and holding banquets, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day.

3. Avoid the traditional taboos of the moon and the sun.

3. 1. The wedding date should avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar. As these three months coincide with Tomb-Sweeping Day, Menglan Festival and Double Ninth Festival, it is not appropriate to hold a banquet.

3.2. Avoid the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days in January, which are traditional taboo days, such as Sanniang Killing and Yang Gong Taboo. Spreading love will not lead to her marriage because of revenge, and San Niang opposes love, which hurts the novice's happy event professionally.

3.3. Avoid each other's parents' birthday. Some people want to hold a banquet on their father's or mother's birthday, which is called "happy event". In fact, in the traditional eight-character numerology, mom and dad's birthday can't be the same as the wedding auspicious day, which means that mom and dad's birthday is not suitable for marriage.

4. We should fully consider and balance the convenience of many parties.

The wedding banquet is a happy event for both families, and all the relatives and friends who attend should drink the wedding banquet. Therefore, when choosing the wedding date, we should consider and balance the convenience of many parties.

Generally speaking, parents want to hold a wedding reception for their children on Sunday (especially Saturday) or holidays, which is convenient for relatives and friends to go. In fact, this is not the most suitable, and the key adverse effects are: holiday traffic, expensive hotel accommodation, and traffic congestion to a certain extent, which brings trouble to novices and guests.

Taboos and pressures in choosing a wedding date. Choosing a wedding date is a professional numerology problem and should be treated with caution.

When choosing a wedding date, we should consider three taboos: forbidden year for men, forbidden year for women, forbidden month for women, forbidden day for women, seeing off female guests at weddings, getting on and off the bus, and starting to sing auspicious songs on various days.

Second, look at the wedding date from the perspective of "good luck month" and "small profit month"

From the perspective of "the month when a woman marries Italy", we should first consider the wedding month.

Each animal sign has two "good luck months" and two "good luck months" in a year.

The formula of "Italian month" is:

Chickens and rabbits are welcome on the first and seventh days, tigers and monkeys on the second and eighth days, snakes and pigs on the third and ninth days, dragons and dogs on the fourth and tenth days, cattle and sheep in May and November, and mice and horses in June and December.

The formula of "meager profit month" is:

The first seven days welcome dragons and dogs, the last eight days welcome cows and sheep, the third nine days welcome rats and horses, the forty days welcome chickens and rabbits, the tigers and monkeys in May and November, and the snakes and pigs in June and December.

For good luck, people often use "good luck month". In case you can't get married in the big month for some reason, you can also look it up in the small month.

Third, the date of marriage should be based on the woman's "birthday"

Dates should be based on women. One principle of choosing a date is to give priority to the date of birth of the bride and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes: "When a child is born, a woman marries", which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems or even divorce after marriage, which new people must not ignore.

Fourth, it is appropriate to choose leap year and leap month on a good wedding day.

China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and attach great importance to the saying of "leap month" and "leap year". Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a year with a leap month, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there are no "leap months" and "leap years" in those years, there is no need to force them. Note that "leap year" is divided into solar calendar and lunar calendar.

Five, the auspicious day of marriage must avoid those unfavorable days.

As the saying goes, "mice with poor mouths cannot leave the temple on the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third day of the first month", so the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third day of each month is generally not suitable as a auspicious day for marriage. Avoid September and March of the lunar calendar. It is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for holding happy events.

Six, get married on an auspicious day to avoid the evil spirits of San Niang.

According to legend, Yue Laosan did not lead the red line for San Niang, which prevented her from getting married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the wedding of Yue Lao and his wife. Therefore, it is not appropriate to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month.

7. When you get married, you must avoid your parents' birthdays.

In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married.

8. The date of the wedding ceremony shall prevail.

If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it's best to do it in these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day.