What if the family always introduces the blind date?

1. The selection criteria and thinking concepts of elders are too different from ours. When introducing blind date, some elders often stand in the perspective of their generation and pay too much attention to the dimensions they care about as screening criteria. Individual elders want you to get married as soon as possible, and seldom understand your feelings and needs. Most of the time, it is unsociable. They don't know or agree with some of your ideas. If you refuse, they will think you are difficult to get along with and too picky.

2. Excessive intervention and concern have affected the communication between the two sides. Many elders often stare at you and ask questions, so you are repeatedly questioned and seem to be a clown on the stage, which makes people watch and gossip. They will also give you some completely unreliable advice. I will advise you that your feelings can be cultivated slowly and that you get married.

In the process of communication between the two people, the "goodwill assistance" of several people was inserted. Among the elders, you have no privacy. They often interfere with your communication, and the scene becomes chaotic. So, you became a marionette.

3. To turn the communication between two people into cold data, love needs to feel. Most blind date objects are basically the data of direct height, occupation and income, which seems to turn blind date objects into commodities. Elders pay too much attention to the "data" they care about. In fact, when two people are together, they often need to feel and get along, not just some gorgeous "data".

Therefore, blind date seems to be an aunt who goes to the vegetable market to buy food and pick and choose. And I seem to be a vegetable and a radish, waiting for others to choose.

4. A large part of blind date objects are unreliable people. Sometimes, the blind date of the younger generation may be that the elder mind their own business, and the other party doesn't want to participate at all, but because of the pressure of the elder, they have to "take part in accidental amusement". As a result, both sides were embarrassed. On the other hand, in the process of blind date, some people you meet may have some problems themselves.

Blind date itself is a low probability thing, just like a number game. After reaching a certain number, you may meet someone who really suits you.