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What do you think of the wedding date of your birthday?

From the following points to see the choice of birthday to wedding date:

1. Know your horoscope.

Usually, we think that the incompatibility of genus is the incompatibility of eight characters. In the traditional eight characters, the genus is only one of them, so the incompatibility of the genus only represents one of them, and the personal genus does not play a decisive role in the marriage of relatives. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the combination and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with God and a prosperous auspicious day, their marriages will be happy, and their children will be prosperous.

2. Make a choice according to the date of birth of the bride.

As the saying goes, "When a child is born, a woman marries". If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in marriage after marriage. It is best to choose Ji Yue as the wedding day. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible and avoid the woman's menstrual period on the wedding day. But at the same time, the opinions of others (especially husbands, wives and grooms) should also be taken seriously. After all, this is related to the future family, happiness and harmony.

3. Avoid getting married in special months

Avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for holding happy events. Because Sanniang likes to fight against the old moon and destroy the new, she also needs to avoid it. Sanniangsha is the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of the lunar month. Avoid each other's birthdays and parents' birthdays. If your parents have died, you should avoid jealousy and death. In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriage, because brides who get married in June are called "half wives of the month" according to traditional thinking, that is, there is no difference between before and after, and they can't help each other.

In addition, there is one more thing. Although there is a saying in folk tradition that "a year without spring is a year of widowhood", there is no need to worry. You still need to choose the right wedding date and time according to your own numerology, and you can't generalize.

In addition, there is one more thing. Although there is a saying in folk tradition that "a year without spring is a year of widowhood", there is no need to worry. You still need to choose the right wedding date and time according to your own numerology, and you can't generalize.

4. The most suitable auspicious day for marriage

Avoid one day and choose two days. It is a good choice to unify the wedding date and holidays. The advantage of this is that relatives and friends will have time to attend the wedding, and the wedding coincides with the holiday and the atmosphere is warm; The bride and groom will also share the joy of the festival with relatives and friends on the wedding day, and will also be infected by the festive atmosphere of the wedding and send blessings to the wedding. However, due to the large number of newlyweds who get married during holidays, we should pay attention to booking wedding banquets and hotel convoys in advance.

According to traditional customs, the real wedding day should be based on the date of the wedding banquet and reception. If the date of marriage registration is separate from the wedding ceremony, it is best to choose an auspicious day. For example; In that year, if a family member or an old man dies, it is not suitable to hold a banquet in that year, let alone register, otherwise "birth, illness and death" will be a taboo.

In fact, choosing a day is choosing a good luck, and the essence of choosing a good luck is to "seek good luck and avoid evil." Especially for such a happy event as marriage, we should pay more attention to the choice of date. The above is the most basic knowledge of choosing a wedding date. Like the old almanac, it can only be used as a unilateral reference, which is not comprehensive. It still needs to combine its own numerology conditions to finally choose a suitable wedding date.