Pick a date for your engagement?

Choose the date of engagement? In fact, the date of engagement is as important as the date of marriage. Choosing a good day on the day of engagement is also a beautiful meaning, but many newcomers don't understand why they choose the date of engagement. Here are some explanations for you.

Choose the date of engagement? 1. Choose an engagement date?

Engagement is the date when both parties end their engagement. Since ancient times, people have chosen auspicious days. However, due to the different family background and local customs, the importance attached to the choice of engagement date will be different. Some parents think that a sunny day is enough to get engaged. Some parents pay more attention to choosing an auspicious day, so that both sides can reach a consensus through discussion. No matter which method is adopted, most of them are simplified in etiquette and customs.

Second, how to choose the engagement date?

When choosing an engagement date, you can choose in the following ways.

1, respect parents' opinions

When choosing the engagement date, it is best to respect the opinions of both parents. Sometimes parents want to choose an auspicious day according to the lunar calendar. If there is no force majeure or their favorite day has been determined, then there is no problem in choosing an auspicious day and paying due respect to parents' opinions.

2, according to the eight characters

This is also a way to choose an auspicious day. Whether you are engaged, married or licensed, you can refer to it. Looking directly at the Gregorian calendar, choosing auspicious days is relatively simple and complicated. You can go to a professional expert to calculate your child's horoscope and decide the auspicious day for engagement.

3, according to the actual situation

Engagement parties can be big or small. It is easier to discuss things if they are small and have dinner with family at home. If the decision is big and you want to book a table in the restaurant, then it is suggested to consider the off-season, the schedule of guests, and the physiological period of girls, so as to avoid the physiological period of girls being too hard.

4, according to personal preferences

If you like the sense of ceremony, getting engaged on a special anniversary is also a good choice. It is ok to choose a suitable anniversary or birthday according to personal preference.

When is the best day to get engaged?

There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered to be especially suitable for engagement and marriage because of its symbolic meaning of the beginning of a year and the extension of branches and leaves.

2, leap month

It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, there were thirteen months in total. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, love and harmony.

3. Double spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for engagement and marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, so it is natural to add joy to it!

4. Avoid one day and choose two days.

It is best to have two months and two days, but it is not absolute. Traditionally, we like even numbers and require the engagement date to be two months and two days. Because it has the meaning of pairs, we often choose two months and two days to pray for this beautiful wish. But this is not certain. It doesn't matter if you don't choose two months and two days, because every month has its own engagement date to choose from.

The engagement date and holiday are unified.

The advantage of this is that relatives and friends will have time to attend the engagement ceremony, and the wedding will coincide with the holiday and the atmosphere will be warm. The bride and groom will also share the joy of the festival with relatives and friends on the wedding day, and will also infect the festive atmosphere of the wedding and bless the wedding.

6. Eight-character auspicious day

Usually, we think that the incompatibility of genus is the incompatibility of eight characters. In the traditional eight characters, the genus is only one of them, so the incompatibility of the genus only represents one of them, and the personal genus does not play a decisive role in the marriage of relatives. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the combination and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with God and a prosperous auspicious day, their marriages will be happy, and their children will be prosperous.

7. Choose to hold the wedding when both parties are healthy.

It is best to hold the wedding when both parties are healthy, otherwise it will not only affect the harmony of new life, but also aggravate the illness. It is necessary to avoid the busy period of study and work for both parties and arrange the wedding and honeymoon schedule in advance. Discuss when the wedding will be held, and inform both parents in advance to ensure that the elderly and relatives and friends at home can come to the wedding and build a festive and harmonious scene.

You can choose the engagement date according to the above method. Oh, good luck with your engagement.