Quarrel depends on the yellow calendar, girl

"Whoever speaks first loses" is a sentence that many couples believe deeply. It is said that being loved can be unscrupulous. Whenever there is a contradiction between lovers, it seems that as long as the other side bows, they can compete for the initiative of a relationship. Many couples don't want to be the first to give up when they have an argument about one thing. If there is no result after the dispute, it is unwise for couples to use the cold war to force each other to compromise. Brother Kay will tell you something below. When couples are in the cold war, girls speak first! Openness does not necessarily mean loss.

Many girls think they are girls and the other party should give up on themselves. Of course, many men also feel that they are men, and the other party has to give themselves face. One is to pursue each other's attitude, and the other is to pursue men's dignity. In this way, such couples will become estranged after the cold war. Should women bow their heads first when couples are in the cold war? In fact, a man loves you, and whether you speak or not, he has won in marriage. If a man doesn't love you, even if you force him to bow his head, what's the point in the end? Many times, talking is not necessarily losing, but winning is better.

Of course, I'm not saying that girls must give up or pray humbly. Is to make some appropriate concessions in front of some unimportant things. Smart girls will take advantage of women's weaknesses to spoil men during the cold war. If a man loves you, I believe his attitude will soften immediately, because when the beloved woman divides the stolen goods, the man has no resistance. Opening your mouth is to prove your attitude of reconciliation, not to prove your humility in love. Therefore, speaking in front of a man who cares about you will make love sweeter. It is easier for girls to solve conflicts by speaking first.

In real life, there is no rule that men must be the mainstay after quarreling. Just like the man in Ex 3, he likes the woman very much, but it is because of his desperate love for face that lovers can't be together. Of course, there are not a few such men in life. If you really meet a respectable person, it is not impossible to speak first without violating the principle. In addition, in Kaige's view, in the cold war, girls are more likely to talk about conflict resolution first. The cold war will bring harm. No matter who asks you, you can get along well, but you should spend your feelings in a cold way. This is obviously not a way to get along.