Can I choose the engagement date at will? What's so particular about the engagement date?

It is very important to choose the engagement date and the wedding date. Whether we are engaged or married, we must make a serious decision, so can we choose the engagement date at will? What's so particular about the engagement date? I believe these two questions are also the doubts of many friends. Next, friends who want to know will come with me to learn about it.

1. Can I choose the engagement date at will?

1, the engagement date can't be chosen at will. First of all, we should respect the opinions of both parents. Engagement is also a traditional marriage custom and an important event in a person's life, so the opinions of parents and elders are also very important. When parents put forward their opinions on the engagement date, we can also negotiate to choose a good day for engagement.

Besides, we should also consider the time of both sides. If the chosen engagement date conflicts with our own itinerary and time, we can renegotiate with each other. The engagement date is usually chosen on auspicious days or holidays, so that we can have more time. Moreover, choosing the auspicious day of the zodiac also represents your constant attention to engagement, and it can also represent a better meaning.

However, the most important decider of engagement date is the new person himself. If the new couple is not satisfied with the engagement date, he can't attend the engagement ceremony normally. The above is an introduction to whether the engagement date can be chosen at will.

Second, what are the details about the engagement date?

1. You can't choose to get engaged in the twelfth lunar month. The engagement in the twelfth lunar month refers to a couple halfway, and its implication is also very unlucky. This is also a saying circulating in many areas. In addition, March, June and July are not suitable for engagement every year, because there is a ghost festival in these months, so it is very unlucky to choose to get engaged in these months.

2. At the time of engagement, the man's family should also give the woman a small red envelope as a token of her heart, but this red envelope is not a change of mouth fee and bride price money. Generally, the amount of this red envelope is10,001yuan, which means one in a million, and it also means that the man's family is very satisfied with the woman herself, and there is pressure when getting engaged.

Summary: The above answers the question whether the engagement date can be chosen at will, and also tells everyone what to pay attention to when the engagement date is. I hope it can also help you through the content edited above.