How should a daughter be raised?

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First of all, respect children.

Respecting children means respecting children's thoughts and personality. A child is also a member of the family, and parents should treat her equally. We can't think that everything is decided by our parents for her. I think the children's affairs should be decided by the children themselves, and let her think for herself. Parents' opinions are for her reference only, and some children's ideas and decisions are immature. At this time, parents can't force her thoughts and behaviors, but should analyze problems for her, guide her and cultivate her independent personality charm.

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Cultivation of broadening horizons

There is a saying, how big your mind is, how big your vision is. Parents can use holidays to take their children around and broaden their horizons. Don't stay at home and educate her. It is best to talk on paper and let children feel the nature and human geography by themselves. Broad-minded is an idea. In addition, letting children participate in various activities and meet all kinds of people will make them see more and naturally broaden their horizons. I won't haggle over every ounce in life, and I won't be tempted by a little thing.

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Give material necessary satisfaction.

Material satisfaction for children is not what parents think children want. I think if the family has the ability, the daughter's reasonable demands can be met. Because if her daughter can't get reasonable material satisfaction from childhood, she is worried that her concept will change when she grows up, so she thinks about how to get it. However, if the daughter is blindly envious of others, envious of people's comparison with those unnecessary things, parents should rationally and emotionally analyze the actual situation of the family with their daughters, and also analyze what requirements the children have for her.

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Give some pocket money appropriately

I think it is necessary to give my daughter some pocket money, but it doesn't need much pocket money, and parents shouldn't give it to her directly every month like salary. For her, hard work may be more precious than giving it to her directly. For example, reward her by studying, working at home and doing good deeds. Parents should make their own decisions and spend the money freely. Don't ask her where the money is every time. She will be satisfied, independent and confident, and will make reasonable arrangements for her money.

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Give your daughter some privacy.

Poor Cheng Feng, especially her parents, is particularly worried about her daughter. They always want to know all her activities outside, who she is in contact with, and worry about this and that, and have 10 thousand kinds of worries about her daughter. Some parents are so anxious to know this that they even peek at their daughter's diary or follow her. In fact, it is irrational for parents to do so, and it will also hurt their daughter, and she will be farther and farther away from you. If you don't want to say anything to your parents, your personality will become introverted and withdrawn. What would you think if your parents could put themselves in others' shoes? So give your daughter some privacy and she will become confident and sunny. Parents can often communicate with their daughters, and children are willing to tell you their thoughts and behaviors. In a relaxed and warm atmosphere, you can understand your daughter's current situation and give practical guidance.

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Cultivate the quality of self-respect and self-love and strengthen personal cultivation.

I think that only by letting my daughter love and respect herself first can she get the love and respect of others. From body and appearance to behavior and mind, we must maintain our dignity as a human being and have the dignity as a girl. Parents can tell their children some examples and tell them that people should respect themselves first and then others, and that people should love themselves first and then others. Read more books to learn knowledge, strengthen personal cultivation and quality, and cultivate noble and dignified temperament.