After marriage, there is usually a saying that you will return to China in three days, so what is the key point of returning to China after marriage?

In the old saying, the bride's return to her parents' home is also called mothering, and the importance attached to mothering varies from place to place. Let's take my hometown of Bengbu, Anhui as an example. There are two theories about returning to her home. The first one is to thank the matchmaker for going back to her mother's house. After all, this marriage has made great contributions to finding people to some extent, so after going back to her parents' home, she usually visits the matchmaker's home with gifts.

The second way is to thank his wife's parents. After all, his daughter, who has been raised by her in-laws for more than 20 years, is officially married as a wife from today. This time, I also thank them for their kindness in raising such an excellent daughter.

The above is just a statement of returning to the door. In addition, there are several things to pay attention to when returning to the door. The first one pays attention to the return time. For example, you can't choose to go home in the afternoon, but usually go home at eight or nine o'clock in the morning, so that when you arrive at your parents-in-law's house, people can have enough time to prepare meals, and have more time to get along with the woman's relatives and friends happily, and then enhance their feelings.

The second is about dressing up. For example, in our country, it is stipulated that the bride must wear red, and the groom had better wear formal clothes and a suit. For example, some grooms don't pay attention to wearing casual clothes when they go home, which is impolite to the parents of the woman to some extent, and the bride wearing red clothes also means that the husband and wife will live more and more prosperous in the future.

The third point is gifts, that is, you must bring enough gifts when you return home, and don't go to see your parents-in-law empty-handed.