Why can't a woman go back to her mother's house for the New Year once she gets married? Not after the divorce?

Is there such a saying? It may vary from place to place. Personally, I think it's no big deal, as long as parents can figure it out!

You are an antique!

I am my mother's daughter, and there is only one staircase between my house and my mother's house.

Since I got married, I can't stay at my mother's house before dark every New Year's Eve. I don't care. It's uncomfortable for a child to ask a small question and not know how to answer it.

I have a son and a daughter now, and my daughter is older. No matter what happens in the future, as long as we are husband and wife, our children, daughter-in-law and son-in-law will always be part of this family, and this family can stay at will 365 days a year.

Who said that

This should be your habit. Before getting married, my mother-in-law also said that she could not spend the night at her parents' house. Later, we will still go back for the New Year every other year.

Custom is a traditional heritage, and we choose how to do it ourselves.

Traditional problem, because you have your own home after marriage, your mother's family is not your own home. As the old saying goes, you can't go back to your mother's family until the third day, because your mother's family is not allowed to see memorial tablets dedicated to your ancestors in the New Year, so, ah, traditional things have been reformed now. That's not true.

The water spilled by the married daughter must be reasonable and cannot be done.

It is an ancient tradition that a woman can't go back to her parents' home for the New Year after marriage, even if she is divorced.

Nowadays, many girls are married far away. They are usually too busy with work, housework, children and the whole family to go back to their parents' home. Only during the Spring Festival, when everyone has a holiday, can we have a longer holiday to visit and reunite with our parents.

The neighbor's daughter is like this. She usually lives with her parents-in-law During the Chinese New Year, my daughter took shifts and a family of four went back to their parents' home for the Chinese New Year. Sometimes she is on duty on the 28th and 29th of the twelfth lunar month, and sometimes she is on duty until the 30th. She drove to her parents' house for a few more days, and then came back to live in the community. Her grandmother's genealogy hangs at home to worship her ancestors. She went to see her grandmother in the fourth grade, and then she should leave in the fifth grade.

In-laws are used to it. My son follows his daughter-in-law back to her mother's house during the Spring Festival, and parents, younger brother and daughter-in-law are also used to her coming back for the Spring Festival.

It's nothing. You don't care about some old ideas. You don't care about them. There is nothing wrong with them. You think too much, but you are tired.

Especially divorced girls, are not allowed to go back to their parents' home during the Chinese New Year. On the day of family reunion, she went out alone for the New Year. What a pity!

Therefore, during the Chinese New Year, it's time to go home. If you can, stay a few more days, spend time with your parents, chat with them, cook for them, help your mother dye her hair and take a bath. How warm and happy!

In ancient times, after a woman got married and became a husband, she could only be buried in her husband's ancestral grave a hundred years later, but not in her mother's ancestral grave. During the Spring Festival, she usually worships her ancestors, so a woman can only go back to her family after her husband worships her ancestors, that is, take her husband back to her family the next day.

I'm Su Beiren. I haven't heard of it.