Can the old man go to the grave on Qingming in the first year of his death?

In the first year of the old man's death, Qingming did not sweep the grave. If the old man doesn't sweep the grave in the first year of his death, everyone will die of old age and illness. A family member died at home, and many people said that they would not sweep graves in the first year of Qingming. Let me take a look at the information about not sweeping graves in the first year of the old man's death. In the first year of the old man's death, Qingming 1 did not sweep the grave. China is a country with a vast territory and different folk customs. In the first year after the death of the old man, Tomb-Sweeping Day's death date happened to be in Tomb-Sweeping Day (or in Tomb-Sweeping Day, that is, three days before and four days after). Different places have different opinions because of different customs. In some places, after going to the new grave within three years (in some places, it is also called "hanging early green"), it is taboo to go to the old grave again. In some places, it is forbidden to go to the new grave in the first year. It is considered unlucky to hang green twice a year. However, in some places, there is no such pressure When you are in Tomb-Sweeping Day, you can go to the new grave and then sweep the old grave. There is no conflict between the two, giving consideration to the old and the new. According to the meaning of the title, it should be the first year of the death of the local old man. After he went to the new grave, he was forbidden to visit the old grave in Tomb-Sweeping Day. According to our folk tradition, the old man will go to the new grave within three years after his death (only one year in some places). The time to go to the new grave is different from the time to sweep the grave in Qingming. Strictly speaking, the time to go to the new grave should be in front of society. In some places, it is difficult to remember the date, and it is stipulated to choose an auspicious day around the vernal equinox. In the old society, people regarded going to the grave and sweeping the grave in Tomb-Sweeping Day as two different things with obvious differences. There was a saying that "going to a new grave is not a club" and "Tomb-Sweeping Day's grave-sweeping is a club". So what is "society"? Society, that is, social day. There are spring clubs and autumn clubs in China. The spring club is based on beginning of spring, counting from the fifth day after beginning of spring. The time is not fixed, usually around the second day of the second lunar month. Autumn Festival, based on beginning of autumn, is also calculated on the fifth day after beginning of autumn, usually in the eighth month of the lunar calendar. What is May Day? It's complicated to say here. To put it simply, Mayday is based on heavenly stems and earthly branches, and it was pushed from the old almanac in the order of sixty jiazi. Every sixty days, there will be six combinations of Wuzi, Wuyin, Chen Wu, Wuwu, Wushen and Wuxu, corresponding to six days. These six days are called "Five Days" and also known as "Liu Wu". Social Day, also called Social Day Festival among the people, is also called the birthday of the land, which is the birthday of the land. This land has two birthdays a year. According to the traditional folk custom in rural areas of our country, every year when spring sowing, we should set up a social sacrifice to pray for the land god, and give a year of good weather and abundant crops; When the grain in the field is harvested in autumn, a social sacrifice will be set up. Sacrifice at this time is to reward the land god. According to the needs of the people, most calendars on the market now print the lunar calendar on the traditional old yellow calendar. Generally, you can find out when the fifth day of May is. For example, I found on the calendar that the fifth May Day after 202 1 beginning of spring is: March 2 1 (the ninth day of the second lunar month), which is May Day, which is the Spring Festival. According to traditional customs, if this year is the first year of the old man's death, then the time to go to the new grave must be before March of February1year, that is, the ninth day of the second lunar month, which is the so-called "going to the new grave without going to society". Tomb-Sweeping Day must visit the grave on March 2 1, that is, "Tomb-Sweeping Day must visit the society when visiting the grave". It is a common custom in most places to officially start sweeping graves ten days before Tomb-Sweeping Day. Some places have the custom of sweeping graves before Tomb-Sweeping Day, but not after Tomb-Sweeping Day. In some places, it is emphasized that "Tomb-Sweeping Day hangs before March and Tomb-Sweeping Day hangs after February" (hanging, commonly known as hanging green among the people). There are three days before and after Tomb-Sweeping Day, namely, three days before Tomb-Sweeping Day and four days after Tomb-Sweeping Day. This year in Tomb-Sweeping Day, it is April 4th, 2008 (February 23rd of the lunar calendar). Let's talk about going to the grave on the anniversary of death Deathday, as far as the death of the elderly is concerned, is also called the date of death, the date when the ancestors or elders died. Old people can't go to the grave on the day of their death, and customs vary from place to place. Some places hold banquets or entertainment activities on the anniversary of the death of the elderly, while others just silently pay homage at home. In such a place where there is no need to sweep the graves on the anniversary of the death of the elderly, Tomb-Sweeping Day is the anniversary of the death of the elderly, so it is natural to pay homage at home if you don't go to sweep the graves. In some places, the old man died, and the custom in rural customs is to go to the grave, that is to say, this is a procedure that people must follow. From a folk point of view, Qingming can go to the new grave, but don't move the old grave. For example, chopping wood on the old grave, or inserting paper money in front of the grave of the old grave, offering sacrifices in front of the altar of the old grave and so on. If you don't do these things, you haven't visited the grave yet. From another point of view, going to the grave on the day of death and going to the grave on Qingming are two different things. Tomb-Sweeping Day worships his ancestors, and when he dies, he goes to the grave to pay homage to the elderly. Although there is only one word difference between "sacrifice" and "memorial", there is a certain difference between the mood of the grave sweeper and the sacrifice he brings. But there is a custom in some places that it is forbidden to go to the grave twice a month. If there is a saying in the place where the subject is located that there is a new grave in front of the clubhouse, it will be less than a month before the clubhouse is clear. In this way, even if there is a local custom that people must go to the grave on the day of death, people will give up going to the grave and pay homage at home instead. Modern society has entered a new era, with new fashions, and some old local customs are constantly changing. Many young people generally don't attach importance to these things and don't stick to ancient customs. Going to the grave on the day of death, going to the new grave, and sweeping the grave in Qingming are all to miss their loved ones and express their feelings of missing, regardless of any taboos. In the first year of his death, the old man did not go to two new graves (buried for no more than three years), and went to sweep the grave for the first time. He chose an auspicious day before Tomb-Sweeping Day 10, and went to the grave for the second time, the day before Tomb-Sweeping Day; The time for the third grave-sweeping is to choose an auspicious day in 10 days after Tomb-Sweeping Day. One of the 10 days around Tomb-Sweeping Day can be used to sweep the old grave (buried for more than 3 years). Legend has it that there will be a meeting in the underworld in Tomb-Sweeping Day, and no one who goes to the grave can attend. To attend the conference, you must enter with the flag sent by your relatives. So when Tomb-Sweeping Day goes to the grave, he will put a paper-cut flag in front of it. Should Tomb-Sweeping Day burn paper in the first year? Every year after the death of a loved one, paper is burned to pay homage, especially in the first year. In the first year, it is best to burn it in his (her) cemetery. If you can't spare the time in the future, burn it in the place where he (she) stayed before his (her) death. What did Tomb-Sweeping Day say when he died? 1, a woman who is not formally married but is a girlfriend cannot accompany her boyfriend to the grave; 2. Pregnant women and women who come to the festival can't go to the grave; In some places, it is also stipulated that a woman whose husband died less than three years ago can't go to the grave. 4. Sick women can't go to the grave. If they have to go, they must wear amulets, such as jade or jade Buddha. 5. For families with new wives and newly born children, Tomb-Sweeping Day must take the new wives and newly born mothers to visit the graves this year. In the first year of the old man's death, Tomb-Sweeping Day won't visit the grave. As long as he is in Tomb-Sweeping Day, it is convenient for him to see himself. Of course, there are some local customs everywhere, and we should respect them. Also, for some customs, there are some differences in time between sweeping graves for relatives who have died within one year and those who have died more than one year. Remind friends to abide by local customs. The specific time of departure on the day of grave-sweeping should be 5-7 o'clock, which is Shi Mao. In the ancient calendar, it was one. Of course, it is generally not so early now, but I still remind my friends that it is best to end the Qingming Festival before 3 pm, because at this time, the yang has gradually disappeared and the yin has gradually flourished. If people are unlucky, they are easily troubled by ghosts. The usual procedure of sweeping graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day: According to the custom, the order of sweeping sacrifices is to sweep the graves first, that is, to clean the cemetery. Secondly, sacrifice, this procedure is very important, one is to mourn, and the other is to feel the same way with the ancestors, because the mountain has a spirit without a master, and the ancestors have a master without a spirit. Only by feeling the same way with the ancestors can we better obtain the aura of mountains and rivers. Remind friends that this is feng shui. When sweeping graves, people come to the cemetery with food, wine, fruit, paper money and other items, offer food to the graves of their loved ones, then burn paper money, cultivate new soil for the graves, repair the graves, fold some fresh green branches and put some paper money on them to show that there are descendants in the graves, and then kowtow. Namely: modify the cemetery-burn incense-eat meat-toast-sacrifice-shoot off …