The old man in the countryside said that there are three kinds of people who come to visit and it is best not to entertain them. What three kinds of people do you mean?

Compared with cities, there are many rules in rural areas, and many traditional things are preserved, both good and bad. Interesting comments were born in a rural area in the northeast. There was a lot of attention at home when I was a child. In the memory of interesting reviews, there are not only three kinds of people, but at least five kinds of people who come to the door and are unwilling to be entertained at home. First, lazy people in the village; Second, nothing has happened at home? Seven seven? People; Third, widows or widowers; Fourth, the daughter who is about to get married; Fifth, gossiping women.

First, the lazy people in the village. The rural area where Interesting Review is located is in the mountainous area, and the natural conditions are relatively bad. When I was a child, most families lived on a few acres of land, pear trees and mountain specialties. Better families will buy some cattle, sheep and pigs to supplement their families. So thrift was the most advocated virtue in the village at that time. For a few lazy people in the village, everyone doesn't like being served. I'm worried that these lazy people will affect my family, but I don't want to be taken advantage of by these people and eat and drink together.

Second, there are white things at home, not outside? Seven seven? People. There is a saying in the countryside that weddings and funerals are happy events. The red event is a happy event such as getting married and having children, and the white event is the death of an old man at home. Generally speaking, funerals in rural areas need to last 7749 days. Many times, the scale of white affairs far exceeds the scale of red affairs. For those? Seven seven? Those who haven't finished eating will be cut out and called out, and will be regarded as unfilial by the villagers. In the former countryside, there was no pension system, and filial piety was regarded as the most important factor to maintain a family's longevity. So every family is unwilling to entertain these unfilial people.

The third kind, widow or widower. After marriage, a woman whose husband died is called a widow. A man who has no daughter-in-law is called a bachelor, but he married a daughter-in-law and died. Such a man is called a widower. There are not many views on widows and widowers now. When I was a child, rural feudalism was still very strong, and both widows and widowers were regarded as? An ominous person? None of them likes to entertain them.

Fourth, the daughter who is about to get married. This may be a unique tradition in my hometown. One month before my daughter's wedding, I must stay at home, go out as little as possible, and can't visit. I asked my grandfather who was still alive, and his old man's answer was that if a married girl visited, she would take the family property to her husband's family. So the village doesn't entertain girls who want to get married. Of course, this tradition is an old calendar, and few people follow it now.

Fifth, gossiping women. The most unpopular woman in rural areas is a gossiping woman, which will become the source of many family conflicts. This is not only in the hometown of interesting reviews, but also in many rural areas. A gossiping woman will be very unpopular. Any man doesn't like his daughter-in-law to get along with a gossiping woman, and will spread the privacy of his family!

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