What's the custom of getting married back home?

Huimen, also known as mothering in ancient times, is the custom that a daughter and a new son-in-law go back to their mother's house together. Every place has different customs of returning to her mother's home. Some places have time requirements, and some places have to bring fixed things to her parents' home when they go back to their parents' house, but one thing is the same. Going back to her mother's house is the first time for her daughter to go back to her mother's house after marriage, so going back to her mother's house will be valued by her parents. Generally speaking, one day, the family will get up early to prepare all kinds of food and entertain the married daughter and new son-in-law. Our hometown is the third day after marriage. When my daughter goes back to her hometown, she still has to wear the clothes she wore on her wedding day. Even though she is far away, she can't spend the night at her parents' house. Every place has some special customs. Although they don't know what these customs mean for a long time, they still abide by them.

1. Return to China on the third day after marriage. In many places, the time to return to the door is different, some after three days of marriage, some after six or nine days, and some after the full moon. The return doors are returned in pairs, which means double return doors. In our hometown, it is three days after marriage. The daughter returns to China with her new son-in-law, and the family will go out to meet her daughter and son-in-law in advance.

Second, put on your wedding clothes when you return home. Going back to the door is a very grand thing on our side. It is the first time that my daughter went back to her mother's house after marriage, and it is also the first time that my son-in-law officially went to her mother-in-law's house. Therefore, it is also required to wear a bad job. The requirement is to wear a formal wedding dress to show the importance of returning home and family. Most people go home in wedding dresses as a sign of respect.

Third, you can't stay at your mother's house after you go home. There are some strange customs, but they are handed down from our ancestors and have been passed down to this day. For example, you can't stay at your mother's house after you go home. Even if your daughter marries far away, you must go home after dinner that day. Some people have to take the chicken home on the day they go home. In short, different places have different customs and habits, but returning home will get the attention of family members. On this day, the family will also put down their work and wait for their daughter and son-in-law to come to the door.