If you were city girl, would you choose "Phoenix Man"? Why?

First of all, Phoenix Man loves face. Require his wife to have a decent job and a good income, so that Phoenix Man can show off his wife's ability to others and gain a sense of security economically. Second, Phoenix men are mostly male chauvinism. Because as long as I am in charge of reading, I am educated at home, so my family revolves around him. So after I get married, I also ask my wife to do all the housework and help you occasionally. I also want to emphasize that I am "helping you" and "caring for you". If you argue with him about this, he will say, "Men are in charge and women are in charge". I'm too tired to work outside, so you must take on the housework, so that I can earn more money outside carefree. Third, the family of Phoenix Man will regard your family of Phoenix Man as an adopted son to support the elderly, so they think that the son's money is their own money and the son's home is their own home. They have reason to enjoy the wealth of your small family. If you express your opinion, you will be immediately labeled as unfilial, poor in character and selfish. Also, many Phoenix men haggle over every ounce. They usually argue that everyone should be in charge of his own money, or he should be in charge of all the money. His money must be used by his family. In his words, we should consider the maximization of family interests and accuse his wife of being selfish and caring only about her family. Moreover, daily life is haggle over every ounce, and love takes advantage of petty gain.

These have produced many irreconcilable contradictions, which is also the reason why I don't want to marry Phoenix Man.