How to choose the wedding day?

How to calculate a good wedding date is very important to most people in China. We are very particular about the theory of leap year and leap month. As we all know, Runnian will appear once every 2-3 years, that is to say, there will be two beginning of spring and one Runyue this year. When choosing a wedding date, it is best to choose a year with a leap month.

2. Avoid 379

It is best not to choose auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months include Tomb-Sweeping Day, Mid-Autumn Festival and Double Ninth Festival, which are traditional "ghost festivals" in China, so it is naturally not suitable for holding wedding ceremonies.

3. Avoid Sanniang's killing

It is said that in the past, because Yue Lao refused to help San Niang lead the red line, she never got married, so San Niang began to retaliate. She has always been opposed to Yue Lao, and she ruined other people's happy events by matchmaking. So until now, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of every month are the days when Sanniang exorcises evil spirits and is not suitable for marriage.

4. Marriage and date selection method

As the saying goes, "when a child is born, a woman marries", so when choosing an auspicious day of the zodiac, the date of birth of the bride is the main one, while the date of birth of the man and his family is taken as a reference. However, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the marriage of newcomers and more likely to divorce. On the contrary, it is great luck.

5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays

In the traditional customs of our country, the parents' birthdays of newlyweds can't be regarded as auspicious days for marriage, which means that the parents' birthdays of newlyweds can't be married, but having a good auspicious day in the same month is suitable for marriage.