What if we can't choose a wedding day?

1. What should I do if I don't choose a wedding day?

65438+1October 6? It's only one day away from us (we are on the 7 th) and it's also pigs and chickens, hehe.

Well, if it's best to take another day, then choose another day, or try another hotel? But maybe 10 is too married. It's not easy to change, is it?

If it really can't be changed, and you two or the old people at home care about this, then I'll give you an attempt: find two chickens (a man and a woman) to ride with the bride when she gets married. So it can be solved. Some of them have tried. Don't worry. I believe everything will be fine.

In fact, two people can really love each other, and getting married is also an auspicious day. Don't let this little thing affect your happiness. Finally, I wish you an early marriage.

2. How to choose the wedding date and some matters needing attention.

In general, the most auspicious wedding date is calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth star and the woman's official star (except many wealth officials).

2. The "auspicious day" that the selected date does not conflict with parents' birthdays should at least not conflict with parents' horoscopes (five elements of demand) and should not conflict with parents' food-eating stars (except those with serious food injuries).

The date chosen does not conflict with the prediction. Some people are not sure of their exact time of birth. Only through divination can they determine the date. This date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

4. The wedding date is chosen on the auspicious day of the zodiac. The so-called auspicious day is to calculate good or bad luck according to astrology. It is said that Qinglong, Tang Ming, Jingui, Tiande, Yutang and Siming Six Stars are auspicious gods. On duty on the sixth day, everything is suitable, which is called "auspicious day of the ecliptic". The auspicious day of the zodiac is a day when everything is suitable. Peasant calendar, or yellow calendar, can choose auspicious days, such as marriage, marriage, engagement, dating, opening, opening and moving.

5. Avoid cloudy days and traditional festivals such as Tomb-Sweeping Day and Ghost Festival. It is not appropriate to hold a happy event. It is also inappropriate to get married on the first and fifteenth day of the lunar calendar.

3. If you choose the date of your wedding.

First, the principle of winning.

The "Tong Sheng" or "Huang Li" mentioned here is based on the China lunar calendar, and many calendars indicate good luck or bad luck on this day. According to legend, the Huangli calendar was created by Emperor Xuanyuan, so it is called the Huangli calendar, which is also commonly known as the "general book" among the people. However, because the word "book" and "lose" in Tongshu are homophonic, it is also called "Tong Sheng" because of taboo. The main contents of the Gregorian calendar are the schedule of the twenty-four solar terms, the good and bad luck of each day, the luck of the zodiac and so on. After experiencing the perfection of sages, there are the following principles for the wedding date:

1, the year of good luck

Shuangchun

There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.

Leap moon-the leap moon in the lunar calendar

It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, which was thirteen months in total. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, loving and harmonious.

Double spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!

2. Year, month and day not suitable for marriage

Blind year

Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.

festival

Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. Avoid the Tomb-Sweeping Day and Orchid Festival, which is full of yin and qi, that is, March and July.

three niang evil spirit

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.

Second, the special principle of date selection.

Winning a lucky day is not universal, because individuals are different, and strictly speaking, the birth time of the married person should be considered.

Generally speaking, the following principles need to be followed:

1. Calculate the most auspicious wedding date by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except many financial officials).

2. The "auspicious day" that the selected date does not conflict with parents' birthdays should at least not conflict with parents' horoscopes (five elements of demand) and should not conflict with parents' food-eating stars (except those with serious food injuries).

The date chosen does not conflict with the prediction. Some people are not sure of their exact time of birth. Only through divination can they determine the date. This date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

However, on the other hand, choosing an auspicious day to get married is not as difficult as expected. The general principle is: day is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years.

Our suggestions are: First, choose the wedding season according to your imagined wedding form and local climate characteristics. For example, if you want to hold an outdoor wedding, you should choose a sunny and rainy season with suitable heat and cold. At the same time, we should also consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, then choose Class 11 for a holiday. Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of the newcomers, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage. Finally, we can't ignore the opinions of our elders.

4. How to choose a wedding day

Choose a good wedding date and stagger the woman's menstrual period as much as possible. The month is more important than the year.

Choose an auspicious day.

The following is the marriage (and certificate) of 20 1 1, which is not credible. Try to avoid planning the wedding before the exam or at the key stage of the project, calculate the most auspicious wedding date from the date and time of birth of both women, and also consider the work and study of both sides: First, choose the wedding season according to the envisaged wedding form and local climate characteristics.

Secondly, the election was held on an auspicious day. Marriage registration (engagement) and marriage ceremony are important events in the life of both husband and wife, taking men as a reference for husband and wife.

Some people say that the year of widowhood or birth is not suitable for marriage, so choose eleven.

The calculation method of auspicious day is that this "auspicious day" can't compete with boys and girls. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, the day is more important than the month.

Combining the above factors. At the same time, it is a folk tradition of China people to choose auspicious days. Pay attention to the date of birth of the bride. If you want to choose. You can arrange the wedding date reasonably according to your own situation, and then choose the date according to their birthdays.

Finally, I would like to remind you that after selecting the general scope, you need to consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. Parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding dates, and they are engaged. ) auspicious day, book a hotel early and wish the newlyweds a hundred years of harmony. It is absolutely appropriate to get married this month, and during the May Day holiday, wedding photos should be taken as soon as possible, based on the traditional etiquette of setting wine for the wedding, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day, so as to get engaged to the car early and tie the knot. Marriage registration cannot be chosen on long holidays or weekends, referring to the date of birth of the man, etc. It is best to choose an auspicious day, which will cause distraction.

5. How to choose a wedding date?

1, How to choose a good wedding day? China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding date, and attach great importance to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year.

Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon. The situation in beginning of spring in recent years is as follows: 201/year (Year of the Rabbit); single spring 20 12 years (the Year of the Loong); double spring 20 13 years (year of the snake); no spring, widowed year 20 14 years (Ma

In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding. 3, to avoid the legend of San Niang, the old man did not lead the red line for San Niang, so that she could not get married.

Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage. The principle of choosing the date of marriage is based on the date of birth of the bride, and referring to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as the child is born, the woman marries the line."

Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck. 5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays. In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that parents' birthdays are not suitable for marriage, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within this month.

6. Real wedding day If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it is best to do both. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a truly auspicious wedding day.

7. Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather see the date chosen by the Yellow Calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.

8. We should consider the reality of both sides' work and study. If one party is studying in his spare time, avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day marriage" when the good news comes. 9. To consider the actual choice of "auspicious day" by both families, it is necessary to consider that the elderly and relatives and friends have time to attend and witness the festive and harmonious scene.

10, considering the physical condition of both parties. If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange the marriage, but to make timely diagnosis and treatment, and then negotiate after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition.

The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the woman's opinion.

1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays. It may be wise if the wedding date and holidays are unified. The advantages of doing this are: deep memory; Newly married people put on festive clothes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home. However, there are many new people who get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.

12, the definition of a good day In any case, the definition of "good day" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone. Choose the auspicious day of the zodiac 1 correctly, and the year when a woman gets married is taboo (please refer to the last line, for example, noon is the year of the horse). Rabbit lovers avoid children, tiger lovers avoid ugliness, ox lovers avoid the year of Yin, rat lovers avoid the year of Mao, dog lovers avoid four years, chicken lovers avoid the year of noon, monkey lovers avoid the year of young sheep, horse lovers avoid the year of You, and snake lovers avoid the Year of the Loong lovers avoid the year of Hai. Start with the hair.

2, men are forbidden to get married, and the first five years are also. That is, no snakes in childhood, no horses in ugly years, no sheep in Yin years, no monkeys in Mao years, no dogs in Chen years, no pigs in noon, no rats in noon, no cows in Shen Nian, no tigers in unitary years, no rabbits in Hai years, no women in July, no chickens, rabbits, 28 tiger monkeys, 39 snakes, pigs, 40 dragons, dogs, cows and sheep, 5/10.

Relative photos: Zishu, Ugly Cow, Silver Tiger, Hairy Rabbit, Chen Long, Sishe, Wuma, Weiyang, Shenhou, Youyou Chicken, Dog and Hai Pig [3]7 The editor asked to marry Tiande, Yuede, Tiandehe, Yuedehe, Tianxie, Tianyuan, Sanhe, Tianxi and Liuhe. Don't marry on the day of the broken moon, on weekdays, close the day, rob, disturb, punish, hate the moon, five tombs, harm the moon, be an official, abolish four things, avoid four things, be poor, leave five things, specialize in eight things, and hate marrying the sun.

8 Precautions: Old people will be very concerned that editors respect the dates chosen by both parents. We must respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision.

Don't be too superstitious about auspicious days. Although it is a tradition in China, we should understand that the happiness of marriage lies in whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid or not, and it does not depend on a certain auspicious day. We need to make arrangements from a scientific perspective. Set a wedding date as soon as possible. Of course, you can choose the date according to the actual situation, but you should set the wedding date as soon as possible, prepare enough time for the wedding planning, and don't act in a hurry! You can ask for the opinions of important guests before setting the wedding date, but you don't have to cater to too many people. Once you have set a wedding date, don't change it easily.

Try to avoid the wedding peak day during the wedding peak. Due to the influence of climate and environment, there are different wedding peaks all over the country, because new people hope to hold weddings on these good days. When choosing a wedding date, first of all, you should know the wedding peak period and the peak days in the city where you want to hold the wedding, and try to avoid the peak days. In this case, it will be of great benefit to choose emcee, camera, float, hotel, dress, etc. And it will directly reduce your wedding budget or improve your wedding.