What do you think of big days and small days when you get married?

1, we should consider the reality of both families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly and relatives and friends have time to participate.

2. We should consider the reality of both sides' work and study. If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date.

3, we should consider the physical condition of both sides, the wedding period should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be embarrassed to say it.

4. Unify the wedding date and holidays, so that the new couple can have more time to arrange the wedding, but there are many new couples who get married during the holidays, so it is necessary to book hotels and motorcades in advance.

Considering the cost, June, August, September and1October are the peak periods of the year, so the wedding price in these periods is likely to be higher. However, if you get married in 1 month, March and1February, it may cost less.

How to choose the date of marriage is meaningful.

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Second, traditional pressure.

Avoid the month or day that conflicts with your genus: the so-called conflict means that your offspring collide with the afternoon horse, that is, the ugly cow collides with the sheep, the silver tiger collides with the Shen monkey, the hairy rabbit collides with the unitary chicken, the dragon collides with the dog, the snake collides with the sea pig, and six groups collide, that is, the mouse has to avoid the afternoon horse month or day, and so on.

March 379: It is best to avoid auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Magnolia and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

Avoid three years: according to legend, Yue Lao doesn't lead the red line for three years, so he can't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

Real wedding day: If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better choose both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.

Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. But this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar.

Avoid parents' birthdays: In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not suitable to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, and it is ok to get married within that month.

3. Which days are more suitable for getting married?

1. Shuangchun

Double Spring refers to the "beginning of spring" where a year begins and ends for two years. Because of the symbolic meaning of spring, it is considered to be particularly suitable for marriage. For example, 20 14, 20 17 and 2020 are all "double spring years".

leap month—intercalary month in the lunar calendar

Leap month means that there is a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, * * * has thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious. Such as 20 12 leap in April, 20 14 leap in September, 20 17 leap in June, and 2020 leap in April.

3. Spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy! For example, Renchen (20 12) and Wu Jia (20 14).

Matters needing attention in choosing a wedding date:

1. Blind Year

A blind year refers to a day when there is no "beginning of spring" all year round. Usually, the year after the "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.

2. festivals

Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. Avoid the Tomb-Sweeping Day and Orchid Festival, which is full of yin and qi, that is, March and July.

3. Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

When choosing a wedding date, avoid the couple's own birthdays, parents' birthdays and unmarried brothers and sisters' birthdays. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

4. Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.