Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - You can't come over for a month after your wedding.

You can't come over for a month after your wedding.

Newly married couples are usually in the sweet period. Some of them will travel and have a pleasant holiday at home. However, there are many taboos in marriage customs within one month. If you don't comply, it may cause emotional instability and affect your happy life in the future. So they should pay attention and ask the local old-timers in advance.

One-month marriage taboo

Don't visit: the bride should not visit other people's homes within one month of her marriage, because she has just formed a new family and should focus on family affairs, otherwise it will bring bad luck.

It is inappropriate to attend a funeral: a wedding is a joyous event. If you attend funeral-related matters, you may be affected by bad luck, which is not conducive to promoting the happiness of married life.

Don't tear up the happy words too early: usually when you get married, you will put decorations on the wall, such as the words of double happiness, but don't tear them off too early. It is said that it is easy to destroy auspicious luck and is not conducive to the stability of couples' feelings.

Taboo to stay at home: In the days after marriage, there is usually a habit of going back to their hometown, but newlyweds will go home on the same day because people are taboo about vacant rooms.

What other common wedding customs are there?

Bride's Gift: Generally speaking, on auspicious days, we go to the woman's house to spend gifts, and we should prepare corresponding gifts according to local customs. Only after the two families discuss with each other can the next wedding be held smoothly.

Wedding ceremony: The groom takes his best man to the woman's house to meet people early in the morning. You need to prepare more red envelopes to get through smoothly, and he can't enter the door immediately. He needs to pass all kinds of tests to successfully win the beauty return.

Toast: Newly-married couples should appear together on the wedding day, and toast table by table to exchange auspicious words in order to receive more blessings. During the dinner, they should live in harmony and there should be no quarrel.

Ancient poems describing newlyweds

The Book of Songs, Yao Tao: Yao Tao's brilliance, burning its brilliance. The girl is going to get married and be happy at her husband's house. Peach blossoms are in full bloom and there are countless fruits. The girl is going to get married, and the heir who gave birth early is going to make a fortune. Peach blossoms are in full bloom, and green leaves are lush and never fall. The girl is getting married, and Comix is in harmony.

Wang Jian's Bride: On the third day, I cooked instead of me and washed my hands to make bride soup. I don't know the taste of mother-in-law. Let's make the taste of good sister-in-law first.

He Xun's Marriage Poem of Wang Fulang: Misty clouds and lotus leaves the water. Rizhao beam. How like a candlelight night. Gently fan the red makeup. The lover is burning again. This table is self-luminous. Be moved by sadness. Surround the corridor.

Yao Mian's Wedding Speech: A bead curtain embroidered with cigarettes, married for a hundred years. At the end of the law, the spring will return to the cold valley and warm, and there will be a night meeting between the halls. Colorful cows and girls are very happy with Han Yun, and the fairies in Huawu are gorgeous. Jade and ice are more wonderful. Next year, we will join hands in the swimming pool.