There are many rules for proposing at home.

There are many rules for proposing at home.

Matters needing attention in marriage proposal

1. Date of proposal.

There are not so many taboos and concerns about proposing marriage now, but if conditions permit, it is more appropriate to choose a good day in the lunar calendar as far as possible. Even days are also welcomed by most parents, and the sixth day is more auspicious.

It's time to propose to relatives.

Most of the time to propose relatives will be in the morning, and it is best not to exceed noon (generally speaking, the morning is also the time to visit people).

3. Number of proposed relatives.

The number of people is preferably even. In addition to the prospective groom and parents, you can also invite the prestigious elders in your family to go with you.

Proposal process

1. First, the man wears a formal suit to visit the woman's house and tells her parents that they intend to get married and asks when it is convenient to propose. If he agrees, he can propose on another day.

2. After the proposal is decided, you can match the date with the two words first. Some parents will find it impolite to propose with the eight characters, and then let the matchmaker make a special trip to get the eight characters.

3. The woman gives the eight characters to the man. After the man gets the horoscope, he will find a professional numerologist to set an auspicious day according to the horoscope. After the date, there will be a Jill Zhang class and a red envelope sent to the woman's home. This is called an invitation.

4. The woman can choose one of the above auspicious days and receive red envelopes with different amounts. After acceptance, it means that she agrees to hold the wedding on this date. As for the matchmaker's red envelope, it generally depends on the friendship between the matchmaker and the couple.

Propose marriage and discuss things

1. Confirm that both parties will agree and recognize this marriage.

2, set the wedding date: generally speaking, after the kiss, it is best to set the date at least half a year later, with sufficient time to prepare.

3. Engagement money: Engagement money is generally divided into large and small. Now a large amount of formal return, as engagement money, or as a banquet fee. Therefore, the large and small amount, whether it is collected or not, and whether the engagement money includes the wedding cake should be discussed in detail.

4. Wedding cake: Who will decide? Choose Chinese pie or western wedding cake? What is the quantity?

5. Banquet venue: After consultation, the estimated number of tables and the suitable venue will be preliminarily determined.

Matters needing attention for boys

1, clean and tidy makeup, not unkempt.

2. Smile at the woman's house, listen more and let the elders talk more.

Be sure to arrive at the scene on time. If you may be late for some reason, you need to call to tell the reason.

4. Generally, I will go to the woman's house at 9:00- 10:00, leave before noon 12, and don't stay for dinner.