Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - How to choose a date for marriage?

How to choose a date for marriage?

1, select Run Year and Run Month.

China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.

2. Avoid 379

It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

3. Don't choose your parents' birthdays

Your parents' birthdays are as important as your marriage, so you shouldn't delay your parents' birthdays because of marriage.

4. Avoid important days related to both parties' careers and studies.

Many young people will get married while studying, so you should avoid reviewing or taking exams at this time. Similarly, if it is at the critical moment of promotion or other important work, you should avoid it a little.

Step 5 avoid sannianzi

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

6. Marriage and date selection method

The principle of choosing the date of marriage is to take the date of birth of the bride as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries a girl". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck.

7. Need to consider whether it conflicts with friends and relatives.

Generally speaking, if the wedding is on a working day, many relatives and friends can't get away, so I can't give you my blessing at the wedding. If you choose a small holiday like National Day, they will have enough time to attend your wedding. Of course, don't forget to inform the other party in advance, otherwise you may not be able to contact during the holiday.

8, to consider the physical condition of both sides.

If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the opinions of the woman.