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How to choose an auspicious day for marriage, and what are the specific methods and principles?

With the approach of the Spring Festival, the annual wedding climax is coming, and many friends will step into the marriage hall. Everyone knows that the wedding day is exquisite, but they don't know how to choose the right wedding day. Newcomer, come and meet the watery master.

First of all, choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a year with a leap month, because it will have a good omen. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and attach importance to the saying of "leap year" and "leap month", because it will have a good omen. There will be a leap year every two or three years. There will be two beginning of spring and a leap month this year. Choose a wedding date, preferably a leap month year.

1, double spring means that there are two "beginning of spring" at the beginning and the end of a year. Spring has the meaning of spreading branches and leaves and the beginning of a year, so people think it is especially suitable for marriage.

2. leap month means that there is a leap month in the lunar calendar this year, and there are thirteen months in * *. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, loving and harmonious.

3, double spring and leap month, there are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, especially suitable for marriage. Nature is a joy!

Second, choosing a wedding date needs to avoid certain years and months.

1, blind year: refers to a whole year without "beginning of spring". Generally, the year after the "double spring" is a "blind year". But the "blind year" also has auspicious days. If you choose a specific day, it is unnecessary.

2. Ghost Festival: It is best to avoid March, June and September of the lunar calendar on auspicious days. Because these three months coincide with "Tomb-Sweeping Day", "Yulan Festival" and "Gongjing Festival" respectively, they are all traditional ghost festivals, so it is not appropriate to hold a wedding. The eighth month of the lunar calendar is the most suitable for weddings.

3, San Niang: According to legend, Yue Lao did not lead the red line for San Niang, so that she could not get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. Therefore, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

4. Birthdays of newcomers and relatives. In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not suitable to get married on parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within this month.

5. The day to avoid committing crimes. The so-called offence is that the offspring collide with the afternoon horse, that is, the ugly cow collides with the sheep, the silver tiger collides with the monkey, the hairy rabbit collides with the unitary chicken, the dragon collides with the dog, the snake collides with the porcupine, and the * * * six groups collide, that is, the mouse avoids the afternoon horse month or day, and so on.

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For example, the female life is in the "noon" year, and the Italian month is (June and December? , small profit month is (the first month, July), hinder wengjiayue is (February, August? , hinder female parents month is (March, September? It's (April, October? May and November are the months to prevent women's health.

Women's life is an "ugly" year. Italy month is (May and 1 1 month), and Xiaoli month is (April and1month). It is (March and September? , hinder female parents month, right? February, August), which month is (January, July), which month is? June and December).

The female life year is "Yin and Shen", and the Italian month is (February and August? , small is? March, September? , hinder Weng Jiayue (April, October? The woman's parents are (May, November), the man is (June, December) and the woman is (January, July).

Third, the special principle of wedding date selection.

The wedding date should not only follow the general principles, but also reflect its own value. This value is the zodiac and birthday of men and women.

1, as the saying goes: "Have children, marry women and marry". An important principle in choosing the date: give priority to the bride's date of birth, and refer to the man and other dates of birth. Specifically, the most auspicious wedding date is calculated by the birth time of both men and women. This auspicious day must be a day when the five elements are suitable for holding weddings and do not conflict with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except those with many wealth stars).

2. Parents' birthdays should not be on the same day as the wedding day. In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. At least not with parents' horoscopes (five elements demand), nor with parents' food-injured stars (except those with serious food injuries).

3. Date of registration and wedding ceremony. If the date of obtaining the certificate and the date of the wedding ceremony are separate, it is best to choose these two dates. If you have to choose, it will be the day of the banquet, because China tradition always regards this day as the real wedding day.

Of course, the above are just general principles. According to the date of birth of both men and women, it is a good day to find a date that is most beneficial to both sides.