Do I have to choose a date to propose at the woman's house?

Yes! It is taboo to propose marriage in the twelfth lunar month.

1, I'm not sure if I want to get married.

In the folk wedding custom, there is a saying that it is uncertain whether to marry or not, which means not to marry in the first month and the twelfth month, that is, to propose marriage. Because in the past, the twelfth lunar month was a special month for offering sacrifices to gods and ancestors at the end of the year. If you choose to propose in the twelfth lunar month, it is popular in many places that the husband's family will be unfavorable to the future development of the man's family.

2. Other taboo factors.

In addition, from a scientific point of view, the twelfth lunar month and June are not suitable days to propose marriage. Cold in December and hot in June are not conducive to wedding planning. Also, no matter which month you choose to propose, remember to avoid the physiological period of the woman. According to custom, it is unlucky for the bride to hold an engagement ceremony during the physiological period. From a practical point of view, complicated preparations are also a burden for the bride.

2. When is a good time to propose?

1, when it comes to proposing marriage, we must first look at the feelings of both men and women. If you are sure that your feelings for each other have reached the point of talking about marriage, then you can almost prepare to propose. If you are particular about the date of marriage proposal, you can ask the Feng Shui master to calculate according to the birth dates of both parties, so as to find a suitable auspicious day. Generally speaking, it is better to avoid the physiological period, twelfth lunar month, June and July, and even days.

If the local people don't attach great importance to proposing relatives, then you don't have to look at the date. According to the working breaks of both parties, choose a suitable time to inform each other, and then propose. It is best to choose a day when both parents and newlyweds are free, so as to leave enough time to discuss the following matters.