After you find someone, will your parents find someone to help you calculate your horoscope?

No, although my mother is superstitious, she will calculate her fortune if she has something, but it is never an emotional thing. She is a very traditional Hakka woman, who will always pay for her husband and children and have no regrets. Even if the husband has many shortcomings, the children have many shortcomings that have never wavered. So when we were going to start a family, he didn't ask someone to calculate the eight-character pairing of marriage to see if it could be combined. He doesn't believe that only the harmony between husband and wife can make marriage happy.

Although I count my horoscope, I can't count my marriage. Because I believe in Buddhism, I got married because of people's inner desire for love, the intersection of life and the traction of karma, which led to the meeting of men and women, the formation of families and even the birth of children. Among them, there is an inevitable causal link. A happy family is like this, and a painful marriage has its inevitability. As the saying goes, "As you sow, you reap". The happiness and pain of marriage come from everyone's past lives's actions and creations, which are not arranged by heaven or imposed by others. Therefore, everyone is responsible for his past, present and future actions.

Although there is no eternal love and marriage, there are marriages with conditions and causes. As the saying goes, all laws (things) are born if there is a cause, and all laws (things) are destroyed if there is no cause. Fixed things don't exist. The idea of wanting perfection and eternity comes from our deep-seated persistent desire, which is the root of pain.