The bride knocked off the sedan chair.

1. How do you say happy words when the bride gets married and enters the bridal chamber?

Loudly, loudly, people and money are expanding,

The golden rooster crows in the sky, and the Feng Huangming underground,

Wedding night, formal carnival,

When I saw the bride, I made trouble in the bridal chamber, and everyone followed me into the bridal chamber.

Step by step, step by step, the lotus blooms,

Take a step, wholeheartedly,

Take two steps, yes, man,

Three steps, three Yang Kaitai,

Four steps, four wishes,

Take five steps and have a bumper harvest.

Six steps, six steps, six steps, six steps.

Take seven steps, seven stars shine high,

Take eight steps, treasure in all directions,

Nine steps, nine beauty and ten beauty,

(The above words go to the door of the bridal chamber)

Open the door with your left hand to give birth to your son, open the door with your right hand to give birth to the champion, open the door with your hands folded together and give birth to twins next year.

Into the new house, beaming, dressing table bright, cosmetics neatly placed, two cups, two pairs of chopsticks, cosmetics with a beautiful bride,

The wardrobe stands on the north wall to show love for Yuanyang.

Wedding photos are hung on the east wall, and there is an ivory bed in the middle. The bride sits on the ivory bed.

After a long speech, I let the bride smoke,

This cigarette must be lit by the bride with a match.

Make trouble in the bridal chamber, see the bride,

I saw the bride's head, and I was so happy that the water in the East China Sea kept flowing.

I saw the bride's face, willow eyebrows, cherry mouth,

I saw the bride's red cotton-padded jacket with two big gold ingots hidden in her arms. I asked the groom to find it. If the groom doesn't want to, I'll change my friend.

I think the bride's red ribbon is not expensive 2.2 feet. I asked the groom to pull it. If the groom doesn't want to, I'll ask a friend to replace him. (mandatory)

I think the bride's red leather shoes are narrow at the front and wide at the back, much like my show.

After eating the happy cigarette and seeing the bride, I asked the bride to spread the sugar and bake it for everyone to taste (the bride must pick it)

New world, new world, I invite new people to play games. (You can play any game by yourself here, just don't overdo it.)

Chatted happily for a long time. I asked the bride to give me a cigarette. If the bride doesn't give me a cigarette, we'll make trouble until the fifth watch.

I met the bride and had a wedding. I asked her to give me candy, but she didn't give me candy. Let's go to the east and let the sun shine.

After seeing the bride, make trouble in the bridal chamber and wish the couple happiness.

After eating candy and playing games, we wish the couple love as sweet as honey.

I took wedding cigarettes and wedding candy, and everyone followed me out of the bridal chamber.

What can I say to block the door when the groom picks up the bride on the wedding day?

Training guarantee

In order to be a competent husband in Xiangshan, I solemnly promise XX as follows:

1. A wife is always right.

If not, it must be my fault.

If I am not mistaken, I must have misheard.

4. If 2 and 3 don't match, follow the first one.

I promise to do all the housework (including my mother-in-law's)

Pay all income (including gray)

Listen to everything your wife says (including hair dia)

Accompany the whole shopping process (including men's stop)

Other commitments are as follows:

1. When taking a bath, the wife should measure the water temperature and scratch her back. There must be no lust.

2. When shopping, the wife should be brave enough to pay, encourage more, and must not have unwilling behavior.

When a wife gives money, she should be grateful with tears, frugal and not extravagant.

4. When the wife exhorts, her hands should be close together, and she should stand at attention, and she should not be distracted.

When your wife is away, you should think about her, lead an honest and clean life, and don't cheat.

6. If the wife is angry, she must kneel down and beg for mercy, and she must not ignore it.

7. If my wife hits me, let her ravage me. Thank you for your kindness. Don't stare back.

I promise to fulfill the above commitments and please supervise them. ! !

Guarantor: XXX

3. What are the taboos for married brides to enter the door? What should the bride say when she enters the door?

The bride's entry rule is taboo: Han people believe in folk customs and polytheism.

There are door gods in the door, kitchen gods in the kitchen, bed gods in the bed and window gods in the window. There is even a threshold god on the threshold, because each has its own uses, so it seems that each has its own skills and needs to be respected. Therefore, when the bride enters the man's house, it is especially forbidden to offend all kinds of gods.

In particular, the threshold is the most important place to be careful. The bride must never put her feet on the threshold.

It is said that it will offend the keeper. Threshold, also called threshold, is the boundary between a family, inside and outside the door, and outside the home. Usually, when someone enters the house, they should avoid stepping on the threshold, thinking that it is disrespectful to the host, not to mention the bride's body is still suffocating and dirty. It is even more unlucky for the bride to step on the threshold. Is to step on the prestige of the in-laws, and even have serious consequences for the in-laws.

Therefore, the wedding custom in Taiwan Province Province has the auspicious phrase "cross the threshold and live to be 102 years old", reminding the bride to cross the threshold instead of stepping on it or tripping. In folk spoken language, threshold also refers to the ability to find tricks or take advantage.

As the saying goes, "You don't know the threshold", "He is too smart to be fooled" and so on. From this perspective, the man is unwilling to let the bride step on the threshold and stand on it.

In that case, didn't the daughter-in-law who just entered the door gain the upper hand and get a bargain? Who can protect her from the doorman? Where are the people in the door? Therefore, the man's house is the most taboo for the bride to step on the threshold. The bride's admission rules are taboo: Henan folk marriage takes the saddle as the door and lets the bride ride, which is called "saddle riding".

According to "Dream of China in Tokyo" and "Dream of Liang", there was a custom in Song Dynasty to let the bride cross the saddle and scale, which meant "peace". However, some women are strong-willed and often deliberately step on the threshold to resist the idea of husband power.

It has even become a custom for Tujia families in western Hubei to step on the threshold. When the bride stepped into the men's door, she deliberately stepped on the threshold and slammed on the railing with her feet. This situation also shows that women have a strong desire for their own liberation.

Dong people are used to holding weddings at midnight. When the bride walks to the man's house accompanied by the bridesmaid, everyone in the man's house must hide and not peek at the bride's entrance.

Otherwise it will lead to family disharmony in the future. After the bride enters the door, she is not allowed to walk around at will An old woman with a full house of children and grandchildren gave her a small bucket symbolizing hard work and housekeeping.

The bride entered the purlin with a bucket, placed it on the left side of the ancestral seat of the altar, and then sat next to it with her back against the pillar in the room, commonly known as "sitting in the middle pillar". After the bridesmaid comes in, the bride can leave the post and walk around informally.

Relatives and friends of the Uzbek bride will "move the bride" after the wedding and take her away. The groom is only allowed to "redeem" her if she gives a gift. Any bride who has been "moved away" is forbidden to enter the house directly after being "redeemed".

You have to walk around the fire in the yard before you can enter the house. Taboo for the bride to get off the sedan chair: when the bride has not yet entered the door and is about to enter the door, there are still many bad habits of "awesome" among the people.

In Jiangsu and Zhejiang, when the sedan chair arrives at the door of a man's house, it is necessary to deliberately stop for a minute, so as to put out the bride's fire and make her dare not offend or violate discipline in the future. In some places, it is necessary to let the sedan chair pass under the crotch hung by her mother-in-law, which also contains the implication that the daughter-in-law is under her mother-in-law and must not disobey her mother-in-law's orders.

There is a custom in Panyu County, Guangdong Province. When the bride gets off the sedan chair, the groom will hit her on the head with a folding fan and then drive into the new house. Tibetan wedding custom, the bride rode to the man's house, and when the man's guests greeted her, everyone suddenly shouted, and then sprinkled food on the bride, which surprised the bride and called it "scaring ghosts."

Manchu, Yugur, etc. The sedan chair needs to pass between two piles of flourishing fires in front of the man's house and fall flat in the yard. Then the groom will shoot the sedan chair door with three arrows. Take the meaning of "wealth" and "exorcism".

There is a custom in Taiwan Province Province that before the bride gets off the sedan chair, the groom has to step forward and kick the sedan door violently, which is also a scare for the bride to be obedient and obedient in the future. Otherwise it will lead to family discord in the future.

But at this time, the groom's parents must avoid it, otherwise the groom may not kick the bride, but kick his parents. Because in-laws and daughter-in-law are in a relative state.

There is a corresponding concept among the people, that is, bad luck is evil, bad luck is evil, not inside or outside, not east or west, so if you don't kick the bride, you will kick your in-laws. However, in this view, the bride and groom should also correspond.

The bride and groom should be in a state of corresponding yin and yang, and whoever has a stronger gas field can submit to each other. In-laws are only sympathizers of the groom, and at most they are auxiliary secondary forces.

Therefore, if the groom can't kick the bride (not really kicking the bride, just symbolically), he should be blocked by the bride and hit himself. However, as the parents of the groom, because they are related to the groom, they are afraid that they will be hurt to some extent at this time, or at least feel some humiliation and humiliation, so it is better to let them avoid it, so as not to let the older generation suffer indignities for the things between the younger generations.

In short, no matter how to explain it, it is an objective reality that the bride gets off the sedan chair and her parents-in-law are not present. This has something in common with the ancient custom that the bride will not see her aunt (the groom's parents) on the wedding day.

Bai people also have the custom of direct contact between the bride's eight characters and Weng Gu, so the bride should avoid it when she enters the door. Taboo for the bride to get off the sedan chair: As when getting on the sedan chair, it is forbidden for the bride to step on the ground when getting off the sedan chair.

In the old society, Han, * * *, Manchu, Zhuang and many other ethnic groups had this custom. "Marrying a Woman at Hua Meng Mausoleum in Tokyo" said: "Newcomers go under the eaves, walk on cloth strips or felt mats, and are not allowed to step on the ground."

In the folk, when the bride gets off the sedan chair, she usually spreads red carpets, wooden boards and mats. So that the bride can walk on it until she enters the room and sits on the bed. A bride in Shandong got off the bus door and was carried into the house by a man with a poplar chair. Someone in Jiangsu laid a red carpet or hemp bag; In Hefei, Anhui, rice bags are also used to lay the floor, so that the bride can enter the house in the rice bags.

There are many places where not only the bride can't keep her feet on the ground, but also she can't see the sky. Therefore, cover the bride's head with a rice screen or an umbrella.

In Taikang, Henan, it is forbidden for the bride to open her eyes when she gets off the sedan chair. Almost all brides who wear hijab are helped into the man's house.

Don't let the bride "look at the sky" and "tread on the ground", it is said that she is afraid that Sha Qi, the bride, will offend the ghosts and gods of heaven and earth, that is, she will not be harmed by the ghosts and gods of heaven and earth. At this time, it is not that the bride is not afraid of being blessed by the bride.

When the couple get married, they must take the bride in. What should the first to fourth sentences say?

There are four sentences commonly used to answer the door of relatives, which are arranged as follows:

Flowers bloom with the blessing of the Lord, and doors open with the joy of rising;

The wedding was held on an auspicious day of the zodiac. When the door opened, everything was happy.

The wedding procession is like the sun, laughing and laughing all the way.

Please welcome me into the hall of blessing, and your in-laws will be brilliant from now on.

The wedding procession, like a dragon, came to the girl's door.

Open the door quickly and say hello happily, and gold and silver will roll in the door.

The wedding procession came to celebrate the wedding, and there was jubilation inside and outside the door;

Welcome us in. Our luck is as rosy as the sky.

The sound of home is clear, inside and outside the home;

The rules are always measured, and relatives come to meet them.

Today is a good day to attend the wedding, and it will be embarrassing to stand outside the door;

Open the door to welcome you in, so that you can see that your mother's family are good people.

Ask for a red envelope as a key. If you get the key, the shutter will open.

Open the door and make a good relationship, and the spring breeze is just around the corner;

The wedding procession is like a dragon, with wax paper candles in front;

As soon as the city gate was opened, it was full of joy, offering sacrifices to God and blessing.

Come to the wedding with great joy and stand outside the door waiting for an answer;

As soon as the bride's family opened the door, her popularity became wide and financial resources came in.

The wedding team is really lively, laughing all the way;

The bride's house quickly opened the door, and the god of wealth came with joy.