Ten taboos for women to go to the grave

The top ten taboos for women to go to the grave are as follows:

1, pregnant women should not go to the grave, because pregnant women are weak and easily injured by evil spirits.

2. Menstrual women should not go to the grave, because menstrual women are weak and vulnerable to pathogens.

After the death of her husband, unmarried widows should not go to the grave because they are regarded as ominous in traditional culture.

4. It is not advisable to wear red clothes when going to the grave, because red represents auspiciousness, jubilation and vitality in China traditional culture, which is inconsistent with the dead in the grave.

It is not advisable to wear short skirts and shoes with bare ankles when going to the grave, because these are all manifestations of disrespect for the dead.

6. When going to the grave, it is not advisable to wear makeup or too bright decorations such as flowers and jewels, because this will make the dead feel uncomfortable.

7. It is not advisable to laugh or speak loudly when worshipping. You should keep quiet and salute.

8. It is not advisable to bring food or drinks when going to the grave, so as not to offend the dead or attract evil spirits.

9. You shouldn't take the dirt or stones from the grave home, lest you bring back ominous things.

10, it is not appropriate to take photos or videos when going to the grave to show respect for the dead and others in the tomb.

Choose a good day to go to the grave.

1. Choose a suitable day: In the traditional concept of the lunar calendar, some specific days are suitable for ancestor worship, such as Tomb-Sweeping Day, Cold Food Festival and Double Ninth Festival. These days are auspicious days for ancestor worship, and the effect of ancestor worship will be better.

2. avoid violating the eight characters: if you want to choose a specific date, you should pay attention to whether it violates the eight characters. According to the eight-character theory, if the five elements of a certain day collide with the eight-character of worshippers, it will easily lead to unlucky results. Therefore, we should choose the right Sunday according to the eight characters of the worshippers.

3. Avoid conflicts: When choosing a date, avoid conflicts with other important activities or ceremonies. For example, don't go to the grave on wedding, birth, moving and other festive days, so as not to cause ominous influence.

4. Choose a suitable time: In the specific time of worship, the traditional idea is that noon and evening are more suitable time. At noon, the sun is the most prosperous moment, but at night, it is quieter and more solemn.