The lack of family gender education has turned a three-good student into a murderer. What is the result?

Parents want their children to win at the starting line. However, the meaning of this starting line is too broad, the boundaries are too vague, and the unified standards are gradually lost. At present, most parents think that the starting line is to choose a good day for their children to be born, or to choose the best school and the best life for their children. Out of parents' love for their children, there is nothing wrong with these.

However, people often pay too much attention to those neglected places. The growth conditions of children are important, but the shaping of children's character is the most important. We can see some students from famous universities committing crimes in the news, and we can also see some underage children in prison. Behind every real event, a family's failure in educating these children can be reflected. Therefore, the starting line should not be material, but personality.

The influence of family background on children

The influence of family background on a child is very important, and the education of children should be as comprehensive and correct as possible, so that children can have a sound personality and correct conduct. Ma Xinye, who has excellent academic performance and has been rated as a "three good" student by the school for many times, has become a lecherous and murderous madman because of his parents' dereliction of duty in education.

When Ma Xinye 13 years old, Ma Xinye couldn't find his father anywhere. Later, he happened to see his father and Aunt Li lying on the kang. Young as he is, Ma Xinye is still ashamed. After Ma Xinye's father left, he found trouble with Aunt Li and kept knocking on Aunt Li's door. When his father found out, he beat Ma Xinye and completely ruined the boy. Not long after, Ma Xinye's parents divorced, and Ma Xinye lived with her grandmother.

On the issue of children's education, there is nothing to avoid.

Ma Xinye is in adolescence, but his parents not only failed to give him correct sex education, but his father also caused him a psychological shadow. The psychological shadow of childhood is almost always lingering. Ma Xinye's understanding of gender issues is incorrect, which is the dereliction of duty of his parents. This led to Ma Xinye's paranoid personality and psychological distortion, gradually stepping into the abyss and committing a series of irreparable mistakes.

Another major mistake of Ma Xinye was that he did not discover the changes of Ma Xinye in time. They didn't pay attention to their children and didn't rescue Ma Xinye in time, which led Ma Xinye to be above the law. He committed 1 1 rape at an early age, killed six people, and made two people pregnant, becoming an arrogant pervert and a perverted murderer.

Ma Xinye's parents' dereliction of duty caused his miserable life.

Ma Xinye could have had a wonderful life. There are only two children in his family, all of whom can enjoy the full love of their parents and become a mentally healthy teenager. Many times, what children need is not a rich life, but a happy family to live together, but for many children in Malik Xinye, this simple happiness is out of reach.

When Ma Xinye was deeply influenced by his father and was almost completely destroyed, if Ma Xinye's parents could find out in time, give him spiritual remedy and turn his extreme understanding of gender knowledge into correctness, maybe he wouldn't have done so many abnormal things. He can still be a good student at school and a good boy in the eyes of adults.

Ma Xinye's parents have great responsibilities.

A teenage boy, a good boy praised by everyone, was sentenced to death after making so many mistakes. This was a great blow to Ma Xinye's parents, but it was too late to regret it. Parents don't pay enough attention to saving Ma Xinye every time. Maybe Ma Xinye expects someone to help him. He wants someone to help him face the problem together and give him correct guidance. Sadly, all the difficulties he suffered were brought to him by his dearest parents.

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Never ignore children's mental health problems. Any knowledge education that parents are ashamed to express may become the reason why children lack personality. If you want to make up for it in the future, you have paid a heavy price.

Children will encounter all kinds of problems in life, and they will not be anxious when they encounter problems. Adolescent education is the most important and also the most headache for parents. There is a book called Harvard Family Guidance, which may give parents some inspiration in family education.