My daughter is getting married, but my grandfather has passed away. What should I do?

Your daughter is getting married in five days, which is really a big deal. But unexpectedly, her grandfather passed away. Faced with such a situation, what should you do?

When a person dies, because the body cannot be preserved for a long time, the wedding must obey the funeral.

According to the rural custom, when an old man dies, he should be filial for three years. In other words, within three years, there is no red matter at home. Then it's really a little late to postpone your daughter's wedding for three years.

As we know, the time of rural funerals is 3, 5, 7 and 9. As long as you arrange her grandfather's funeral in the seventh row (the seventh day after death) or the ninth row (the ninth day after death), this problem can be solved.

Put the old man's body in the building so as not to mourn. On the fifth day, after our daughter's wedding, we began to bury the old man. In this way, the daughter's wedding date does not need to be changed, and the burial time of the elderly is also within a reasonable range. There is another family member in the funeral crowd, which is also sad and happy.

Am I right? Please give your opinion.

As soon as possible, the old man's white affairs can be handled, and the daughter's wedding can be carried out normally. This is called special affairs, and the old rules are still preserved. The old man has left without leaving, and the arrangement of the living cannot be affected by the dead. The old man also hopes that his granddaughter can get married happily as scheduled.

In this case, the funeral can be held first (usually three or four days), and then the daughter to be married will marry "filial piety". Some people say that it is obviously inappropriate to "stop marriage" because there are only five days before the "wedding day" and the man's wedding plans are all ready. How can we stop? This is a very irresponsible attitude. As a woman's family, we should try our best to have a wedding with the attitude of "the beauty of adults", but perhaps some etiquette and ostentation and extravagance of the woman's family should be simplified. Rules (customs) are made by people, and some things should be mastered flexibly according to specific circumstances. Sticking to the rules can only harm others and themselves.

You can register first, and if you register, you are a legal couple. After the baby is born, you can take the baby to the wedding banquet. Many people in Guangdong do this. [Ross]

Her grandfather's white wedding will be held first, and her daughter's red wedding will be held three days later.

Special events, first the funeral of the old man, and then the marriage, we have an old saying, white things are doomed for three years, and red things are completely solved. Everyone wants children to be happy, safe and happy.

This matter depends on local customs. I think we should go through the marriage formalities first and then take the exam after marriage. Otherwise, we should do grandpa's white work first, and then we should go to Dai Xiao. If we wear mourning clothes, we have to change our filial piety for a hundred days before we can do other things. This will miss the auspicious day, which is not good for both sides.

After the funeral, do a happy event and do it well.