What days should we pay attention to when burying?

What days should we pay attention to when burying?

Pay attention to which days to avoid when burying. Burial is burial, which generally refers to burying the dead through corresponding ceremonies. The date of burial is a very important part of our folk tradition. Share with you which days to pay attention to when burying.

When burying 1 1, pay attention to which days to avoid, and avoid the day of heavy mourning.

Heavy mourning refers to the death of a relative or relative within nearly a hundred days or as far as a year. The time of death is beyond people's control, and the day of heavy mourning of the deceased is beyond people's control, but we can control the date of burial and mainly avoid two kinds: one is the day of death, and the other is the day of funeral.

2. Preventive measures

(1) Wear: the lineal line is white mourning belt, the peers are black gauze, and other relatives are black gauze; Grandchildren sewed a small piece of red cloth on a small white belt and black gauze, and other guests wore white flowers. The mourning clothes worn by the dutiful son and wife are linen. After the funeral, all the mourning clothes, white mourning belts, black gauze and other sacrificial articles were burned together. During the subsequent mourning period, everyone wore plain clothes, red and purple clothes and shoes and socks.

② Cover the coffin: Pay attention to warm the tomb before burial, and use hot air to drive away the cold in the tomb, so that the deceased can rest in peace and comfort. At this time, we can throw paper money into the grave and use it to heat and warm the hole. Pay attention to burning more money to play a role. After the tomb is heated, determine the location of the coffin and urn, and then fill it. Relatives need to grab dirt and throw it on the coffin. This is called "adding soil", which means sending the last layer of relatives and scattering one or two handfuls of soil.

What does it mean to be buried?

There is a difference between burying and not burying. The burial process is more solemn and the burial is very ceremonial. Burial is the last memorial to the deceased. After the initial funeral, mourning, seventh birthday, funeral and other ceremonies, it will be considered a very solemn thing. The Han people mainly practice burial. After years of continuous evolution, various burial ceremonies have appeared in all ethnic groups in China. In addition, after the burial ceremony, there will be mourning ceremonies such as the seventh day, the hundredth day and the anniversary, and there will be mourning during this time.

How to choose the burial time

Choosing a date is choosing an auspicious day. If you choose the right time to be buried, you can avoid misfortune. In this regard, burial can be chosen on barking day, which is an auspicious day for burial. It is best to bury the dead and help them rest in peace. The barking days are * * * 14th, namely Wu Geng, Renshen, Guixi, Renwu, Shen Jia, Yixi, Ji You, Shen Bing, Ding You, Renyin, Bingwu, Gengshen and Xinxi.

What are the taboos of burial? 2 What are the taboos for burial?

When burying ancestors, whether they are buried in the ground or cremated, they should "sunshade" and "call the mountain to evoke the soul"

"Umbrella shading" means that during burial, the remains and ashes of ancestors can't be directly seen by the sun, so future generations should play a black umbrella or shed to shade them, so as to prevent the sun from exposing the remains of ancestors and causing them to faint. "Calling the mountain to summon the soul" means that later generations should shout the names, birthdays and death sacrifices of their ancestors before burial, so as to help their souls return to their places and settle in the mausoleum.

Warm kang

Before burying our ancestors, we must warm the kang in the grave, not cool the cave, and not be seen by sunlight, moonlight and starlight. Dig the grave, set up the earth dragon, put the seven stars, and we will burn the kang money in the grave, and then bury it after burning it. Above the dug grave, you should also use a black umbrella or shed to block the sun, moonlight and starlight.

Three good signs of burial

Rain fell on the grave during burial.

In rural areas, it is a very sad thing for the elderly to be buried. However, if rain falls on the grave after burial, it is usually considered as a good sign. Because there is an old saying that "rain hits the grave and makes a noble man". People believe that when the funeral happens, the rain will hit the grave, which will be moved by God like the writer's sadness, and even God will be sad for it, which is bound to be a good sign.

Dig up creatures (snakes) from the graves of ancestral graves.

Serpentine is the predecessor of the dragon. The presence of snakes in the tomb shows that this cemetery is alive. From another perspective, it can also be called "dragon soul". It is a good sign that there are snakes on the grave. Snakes are spiritual. Where they live, the feng shui is absolutely good. Generally speaking, if they live in a grave, their families are blessed and cannot be disturbed. This is a sign of getting rich. Snakes are called money-oriented in geomantic omen.

Listen to the cock crow.

In some areas, when burying ancestors, a rooster will be prepared in advance and placed next to it. When the rooster crows, it represents the auspicious moment of burial. Burying ancestors at this time can not only make them sleep well underground forever, but also make future generations more prosperous.

What are the taboo dates for burial? 3. Pay attention to the choice of burial date.

1, Tomb-Sweeping Day

Mourning day, drizzle like tears; Pedestrians on the road want to die. The spirit of Tomb-Sweeping Day is the day when family members visit relatives, break ground, weed and build graves at the beginning of the year. Usually in Tomb-Sweeping Day, Tomb-Sweeping Day is also suitable for burial.

2. Dragon Boat Festival

In the first half of the year, besides Tomb-Sweeping Day, there was the Dragon Boat Festival. Although this is a day to commemorate Qu, it is actually a day to be buried.

3. Lunar June 19.

There is a folk custom of worshipping Guanyin for help. June 19 of the lunar calendar is the day when Guanyin Bodhisattva attained enlightenment, and it is also an auspicious day for Guanyin Bodhisattva to be buried.

April and July 13

The region is not empty, and it is not immortal. The Tibetan Bodhisattva saved all those who did good deeds and set their souls free. The Tibetan Bodhisattva is a regional bodhisattva in Buddhism. Generally, many Buddhists will choose this day to bury their loved ones.

Ghost Festival in May and July and a half.

Worship on Halloween is to burn incense and paper for the dead relatives at home. Usually cooked before the lunar calendar 15, it can also be used as the burial date. At this time, the deceased can go home with many triad members.

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In the past, there was a folk custom of sending cold clothes, but modern people are not very sensitive to this festival. The Cold Clothes Festival and the Half Moon Ghost Festival have the same meaning. They are both days to worship and pray for the deceased relatives, and can also be used as the date of burial.

Generally, the above date can be used directly, but you should also pay attention to avoid taboos and precautions.

When there is life, there is a place to die. When there is life, life and death are divided into two parts. Life with death can only live if it is buried. Everything in the world has its own laws.

Precautions for the date of burial.

Ten miles is different from the sky, a hundred miles is different from the language, and a thousand miles is different from the customs. I have seen funeral customs in various places. For example, some people have to bury it in three days, some people bury it in the same day, some people bury it in seven days, and some people even bury it a year later.

Few people were buried that day, and many places have seen them buried three days and seven days later. Whether buried on the same day or after 37 days, we should pay attention to taboos and precautions before burial, and some taboos cannot be violated.

1, avoid heavy mourning

Heavy mourning means repeating the funeral and another person will die. If the burial date is not well chosen, or if a relative dies on the day of heavy mourning, it is the most unfavorable to his family in funeral customs, also called internal heavy mourning.

It is inevitable that the heavy loss of the deceased is a mechanical factor rather than a human factor. On the day of burial, it is man-made "asking for trouble" to commit heavy mourning. Generally, the date of burial is chosen to avoid heavy mourning.

Otherwise, as short as 100 days and as long as 1 or 2 years, someone in the family will die suddenly. Whether it is buried in three days or seven days, you should find someone in advance to see if there is any problem with that date. This is very important, don't bother!

When choosing the date of burial and the taboos that need attention, the most important thing is to be sure. Never, never bump into the day of heavy mourning. Some people lost 1 or two relatives in one year, and lost several relatives in their families for several years, all because 1 or the second one who died may have committed a felony.

2. Avoid rushing to family appointments.

When something big happens at home, the eldest son and grandson are usually special roles. Many funeral links and ceremonies are also completed by the eldest son and grandson. After avoiding heavy mourning, we should avoid the day when the eldest son was attacked.

According to the situation at home, we should not rush the eldest son and grandson, but also consider other people in the family, especially the dutiful son and daughter. In order to protect them, we should try our best to avoid unfavorable situations when choosing a date.

You are lucky if you are not in a hurry to go home to find someone. If someone in the family is not suitable for the funeral, we should also pay attention to let the other person avoid it in advance.

Step 3 pay attention to burial

Because the land in the city is precious, a cemetery ranges from tens of thousands to hundreds of millions. Many family members will store their ashes for a long time after their loved ones are cremated, and plan to bury them later.

Some of them want to have more time to see the cemetery in order to choose a more suitable cemetery, and some want to be buried in a pair of graves. Although these phenomena have evolved with the development of the times, the best burial time in funeral science is as early as possible.

Burying the deceased within 100 days can avoid many unfavorable factors. Li Huijun met many family members, believed nothing, lacked basic respect for his ancestors, and handled the funeral in a perfunctory way. After the funeral of his relatives, his luck did not rise for a long time.

As long as the date of burial is chosen, basically after burial, after 77 years, the family's luck will slowly begin to recover and will not be affected by the bad luck of the funeral.

/kloc-buried within 0/00 days, also known as "murder burial".

If the burial is postponed until 100 days later, it will have exceeded the time limit of "taking the murderer for burial". There are many arguments, so pay more attention, and pay more attention to the date selection.

Broken thoughts

At present, cremation is the mainstream of funeral, but some details of funeral should be observed. After the ancestors were buried, everyone can't go home, especially those who are weak, unlucky and sensitive.

If you are buried on another day, remember that if you commit a crime, you should find a way to solve it.

Life is like a calm lake, blue waves fluttering in the wind, seemingly free, but there are ups and downs hidden under the calm lake, such as this sudden farewell to life and death. Everyone has to face birth, illness and death, which is beyond our decision.

Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws, and no one can escape. Relatives only left us in life, but their love and teaching will always be with us, and he will live in our hearts forever.

People will die three times in their life:

The first time, when your heart stopped breathing, you were declared dead biologically.

The second time when you bury people dressed in black and attend your funeral, they declare that you no longer exist in this society and disappear from the interpersonal network.

The third time is the last person in the world who remembers you and forgets you, so you really died.

In short, the emphasis on the date of burial and the taboos that should be paid attention to are more for the sake of the world. Burying on an auspicious day has no so-called influence on the world, and life can look forward better.