Does anyone know the marriage custom of digging a harbor in Rudong, Nantong?

First of all, the first year of engagement is also called a stable marriage, and the matchmaker (matchmaker) tells both parents to agree. Choose an auspicious day to get engaged, and the man will go to the woman for a bride price at noon. At present, it is between 8888 yuan and 128888 yuan (the woman will return the gift according to the situation). There are four gold (about twenty-five thousand yuan). In the evening, the matchmaker took the girl to the man's house. It's just a one-day wedding. As for you who are from other places, you can omit it. It generally doesn't matter if the matchmaker gives the bride price to the woman's family. The main thing is that you men and women get along well. Both parents should agree. Anyway, there are many customs, which are annoying. Or get married or travel. I wish you happiness!