When a woman reaches the age of 30-35, when is the best time to choose a spouse?

There is a folk saying that "a young woman holds a golden brick", and there is a similar saying that how old she is a golden rooster and how old she is not a wife.

Especially in the eyes of the elderly, it is very important to read about the zodiac and numerology, which is why men and women have to choose a good day for marriage since ancient times.

However, there are still too many people who don't get married on a good day. The explanation of this phenomenon among the old population is: something must have been missed, or something was hit on the wedding day.

These statements have no basis, but they are just to find good luck on the wedding day. As for choosing auspicious days and various constellations, there is no practical significance. Only in the present age of trial marriage, to put it bluntly, almost all the good days are after the wedding night. Isn't it a little funny to mention a beautiful day?

In fact, you don't have to care about feudal ideas and superstitions. How old the combination of men and women is, completely out of these superstitions.

According to the actual phenomenon of most men and women after marriage, most people think that the age gap between men and women should not be too large, so as to avoid the generation gap caused by the age gap and affect the harmonious life after marriage, especially in the following two cases:

1:After the age of 30, a woman's appearance is easy to get old. If she finds a man much younger than herself as a partner before the age of 30, she is bound to worry that her appearance will get old and that giving birth will take up too much energy. If the husband is still in his prime, I'm afraid a woman will distance herself from him.

If a woman reaches the age of 35, she is over thirty. At this time, women's understanding of the world and the maturity of their thoughts are between mature and stable and young women. At this time, she will find a man who is older than herself or younger than herself as a partner. Most of them will be unable to choose a low age because they are too young and too mature.

So how do single women aged 30-35 control the age of choosing a spouse?

The best age for a man and a woman to marry is no longer the legendary "ideal for marriage at the age of three". It seems perfect to say that three years old is the same age. Both age and appearance are * * * From young to old, it seems that there will not be much change.

According to previous statistics, the proportion of college students breaking up after graduation has gradually increased in recent years. The smaller the age gap between husband and wife, the higher the divorce rate. The divorce rate of couples over two years old can reach 19%, and that of couples over three years old can reach 1 1%.

Moreover, many people will find that the age gap between men and women is getting bigger and bigger, so the biggest advantage is that they can be more passionate in marriage because there is no shortage of young factors, and because of the existence of mature factors, they can balance too many contradictions.

Therefore, the choice of age gap in mate selection has become a big problem. Some people like it very much, but it is not suitable for long-term communication. Some people are congenial, but only suitable for plain communication.

On the issue of women's mate selection, because they can't afford to gamble, they can't afford to lose. Especially at the age of 30-35, I care too much about what others think of me, and my choice of spouse is a bit sloppy. Coupled with the family urging marriage, after this hasty marriage comes, they will suddenly find that a person is fine and always feel that they have married wrong. In fact, women of this age have long passed the age of listening to love, and there are too many sweet words.

As for the woman's age choice when choosing a spouse, the upper and lower ages of 30-33 years old should not exceed 5 years old, and those of 33 -35 years old should not exceed 7 years old.

Some people will wonder why 30-35 years old is divided into two options.

Female 30-32 years old, the reason for choosing a spouse is not more than 5 years:

There is not a big generation gap for men who are five years younger than women in thinking. When they are together, they are passionate and have a mature taste. Passion comes from men who are five years younger. Mature taste exists because women guide men steadily, which not only has the taste of freshness, but also reduces unnecessary energy wasted on unnecessary things because of mature guidance.

Most men who are five years older have experienced social baptism, have their own rational and mature thinking, know how to face life with an enterprising heart, and know how to communicate with the other half. When two people are together, the woman gradually loses the waywardness of the little girl. Coupled with men's rationality and progress, such a life will be more harmonious.

33-35 years old, the reason for choosing a spouse is not more than 7 years old:

A man who is seven years younger than him will also focus on his career and marriage when his career is on the rise. While not forgetting his career, he will not ignore the feelings of his family and women, thus gradually giving women the image of a potential stock and giving them reliable support behind the potential stock.

Men and women who are seven years older have a better understanding and a sense of responsibility for life and marriage. If women choose men who are seven years older than themselves at the age of 33-35, their marriage will be more stable. At this time, most men have successful careers and don't have to worry about the economy all day.

When women are 30-35 years old, don't exceed the best age limit of 5-7 years old. Marriage is no joke. Choosing a spouse is not a vegetable market dish. She did not marry for the sake of marriage, nor did she marry for the sake of forced marriage, nor did she blindly choose to block the title of "leftover woman".

In fact, age is not the specific boundary of mate selection. No matter how bad it is, as long as two people know how to get along, all marriages will come to an end.

No matter what age difference you choose, you should know how to put management first in your relationship and marriage. Only by mutual tolerance and mutual respect can you be more harmonious, and a harmonious marriage can bring a double harvest of affection.