What should I do after going to the funeral home?

Question 1: What should I pay attention to when going to the funeral home? I hope it will be helpful to you and I hope it will be adopted.

Generally speaking, people have three souls, namely, living soul, soul and conscious soul. Living souls refer to animals and plants.

Both, it is always growing and visible; The soul is invisible, fetal period.

That's it, most obviously in pregnant women,

That is, the fetal god in folklore; There is also a sense of soul.

It belongs to perception, including vision, hearing and touch. These feelings are strong and weak, but people don't.

Everything must be first, but complete, like dogs or cats, with a stronger sense of death than people.

The funeral home itself is a place with a heavy yin, and there are some taboos that everyone should pay attention to:

Taboo of funeral parlour ~

First, don't talk casually in the lobby of the funeral home, such as:

1.

"I want to go to the bathroom, let alone go to the dressing room."

If you want to go to the bathroom, just say you want to go to the bathroom, no.

Said to go to the dressing room, because there is a soul, and after death, these three souls (life

Soul, soul and soul do not die immediately, but exist for a short time and a long time of several hours.

And then a few days later,

So generally speaking, the dressing room we talk about outside is based on verbal courtesy.

or

It's for listening,

It is inappropriate to use such a statement in a funeral home.

Because at the funeral home

There used to be a place dedicated to dressing up the dead, called "dressing room"

, with the "toilet"

Is a different place,

Just say you have to go to the bathroom,

Plus the atmosphere of the funeral home is better than

Chaos, mistakes or slips of the tongue are also more likely to encounter bad gas fields.

2.

Don't joke about "I'm going to die, too".

3.

Don't shout your name, for example, "My name is XXX."

4.

Don't disrespect the dead, such as "I'm not afraid of ghosts" and disrespectful words to the dead.

Second, don't look around, walk around, sit around, especially in such things as beds, dark places, or beside coffins.

Third, don't recite the scriptures in the funeral home, so as to avoid self-defeating.

Before going to the funeral home, put a banyan leaf or other amulet to ward off evil spirits in your pocket. When you are finished, leave quickly, throw it away after going out, and go home to the public toilet to discharge pollutants.

5. Pay attention to whether your horoscope is offensive (usually indicating the date of the funeral, which year is the zodiac when you rush today), or when you are in poor health, poor spirit and poor sleep, it is best not to go.

6. When you get home, stomp three times at the door before you enter. If you have an umbrella, open it, shake it and go in.

Seven, after returning home with wormwood, citronella, chicken manure rattan bath. After washing, you can hug the children or meet the weak elders.

A little superstitious. This article is for reference only.

Question 2: What should I pay attention to when going to the funeral home? The most important thing is to pay attention to dress, don't dress too fancy and bright, pay attention to proper black and look serious. As for other forms, just follow the crowd. Nothing is too complicated. Take it easy. Good luck.

Question 3: Can I go home to ward off evil spirits after going to the funeral home? I have never heard of it. I have stayed in the funeral home for one night. My father works there. Don't be so superstitious If you really don't feel at ease, you can wear your wife's * * * on your head without washing it. There is such a plot in Ching-Ying Lam's ghost film Jin Ping Mei.

Question 4: After going to the funeral home, I always feel very tired of belonging to the funeral home. The sad atmosphere there makes me feel heavy, tired and tired. It's normal to have a rest and find a sunny place to bask in the sun and relax!

Question 5: I have been to the funeral parlour during the day, why do I have to take a shower when I come back at night? It is unlucky for Cantonese people to pat grapefruit leaves with water.

Drinking is also popular in some places. In short, get rid of bad things!

Question 6: What's the procedure for going to the crematorium when a person dies? People have passed away, so you need to go through the relevant formalities for going to the crematorium.

Obtain a death certificate

After death, the family or unit of the deceased must obtain a death certificate. If he dies in a hospital, the hospital shall issue a death certificate; In case of death due to illness at home, a death certificate shall be issued by the village committee, neighborhood committee or police station; In case of death due to unconventional reasons, the unit or public security department shall issue a certificate of death or cremation. Then go through the relevant formalities at the health and epidemic prevention department, and then cancel the account at the local police station with the death certificate.

Give a good explanation to death.

After receiving the death certificate, you can call or send someone to contact the funeral home, funeral service station or crematorium to agree on the time to pick up the body and inform the deceased's name, address, age, gender, cause of death, time of death, location of the body and location of the deceased's household registration; Name, address, telephone number and relationship with the deceased; Whether the deceased took off his clothes, whether it is necessary to hold a memorial and farewell ceremony, etc. When receiving the corpse, the bereaved family or unit should prepare the death certificate and necessary clothes. Before the corpse truck arrives, the person who died in the hospital should go through the discharge formalities.

Do a good job in cremation procedures

After the body is transported to the funeral home, the family members of the vehicle (two or three people can be taken by the family members when taking the body) go to the business room first, submit the death certificate, buy the urn, get the cremation certificate, and handle the payment procedures. It usually takes two to three days to get the ashes. If there are special circumstances that need to be advanced, you can go through the formalities of taking ashes in advance. When the ashes are buried together, they shall be collected at the ashes collection place with the cremation certificate. If the corpse cannot be cremated immediately after being transported to the funeral home, it should be refrigerated in the business room.

Hold a farewell ceremony or memorial service at the funeral home.

The funeral home or unit should contact the undertaker of the funeral home business room in advance to determine the rental time, and rent the auditorium, farewell room, wreath, flowers, small white flowers, black veil and other matters.

Store ashes

According to the regulations on the storage of ashes, some can contact directly at the cremation site with the cremation certificate, and some can contact the designated ashes hall with the cremation certificate. The storage time is generally three years, and it can be renewed when the time comes. If it is not taken or renewed after the expiration, it will be handled by the cinerary hall as appropriate. When handling the ashes storage procedures, the urn will issue a certificate of ashes storage. Families or units that have lost their loved ones shall keep them properly, and the holders may visit the ashes of their loved ones in the urn at any time. When paying homage, you should abide by the relevant regulations of the ashes hall.

Question 7: What things should people prepare to listen to your questions when they die? It seems that you have bought a cemetery, so ask the date of burial:

1, determine the burial date, notify relatives and friends, ask for leave, ask for leave;

2, contact the tomb, let the tomb prepare in advance, such as inscriptions, tomb cleaning, etc. ;

3. Arrange the vehicles for the day;

4. On the morning of burial, go to the cloakroom in advance to go through the formalities of taking the ashes and go directly to the cemetery;

5. prepare an umbrella in case of rain;

6. Prepare funerary objects, sacrificial objects, flowers, etc. (According to the requirements of cemeteries, some cemeteries prohibit burning paper and incense.)

You can consult the place where you buy the tomb, and they will tell you the most detailed! As for customs, the mind is the most important thing, so you don't have to stick to too traditional forms.

I hope my answer can help you.

Question 8: Why did it smell everywhere in the house for several days after I went to the funeral home? First of all, a lot of paper money will burn and stick to clothes.

2, many people are mixed, which will bring other smells.

3. Psychological factors. I'm thinking about having that taste, having that taste, and then feeling that it has that taste.

Solution: Take a bath, change clothes and wash well.

Go for a ride!

Question 9: What's the point of going to a friend's funeral home? The customs and habits of different nationalities and regions vary greatly. The so-called "ten miles of different customs"

The old tradition of Han funeral is to pay attention to heavy burial, which is mixed with many superstitious customs. Coffin burial has been popular in Han nationality since ancient times, and the funeral is grand and divided into three stages: burial, burial and burial.

The funeral is to dress the body and put it under the coffin. Before a person dies, he should summon the soul and bathe the dead. Funeral is divided into two steps: small funeral and large funeral. A small undertaker is a cloth used to wrap his body, silk is for the rich and jade is for the royal family. Great-coat is to put the body in the coffin. Coffins are called "longevity materials", male coffins are engraved with the word "longevity", female coffins are engraved with the word "blessing", and some coffins are engraved with the combination of the words "Fu Lushou". When he was dying, he put rice in the mouth of the dead man. This rich family owns jade, pearls, etc. , the royal family contains jade, modern silver, are called "rice". When you die, there are often some things buried with you. Generally, people have clothes, quilts and daily necessities, and wealthy families and royalty will have many valuable items buried with them.

A funeral is to stay in the funeral palace after the funeral. The mourning period varies from 3 days to 30 days, mainly depending on the mourners. In ancient times, coffins were buried for three months, up to seven months. According to the traditional customs of the Han nationality, children should mourn when their parents die, otherwise it is unfilial. Relatives and friends will mourn and pay homage to the deceased in the future, which is called "mourning" or "condolence". All mourners should mourn. In ancient times, the mourning clothes of Han nationality were divided into five types: Wei, Cui Zi, Dagong, Hong Xiao and Zhima, which were called "five clothes". They are made of coarse linen and fine linen, and wear different mourning clothes according to the relationship between relatives and friends, which is called "Pima Dai Xiao". In modern times, white cloth is often used for mourning. Modern cities generally wear white flowers on their chests and black gauze on their arms.

Burying is burying the body of the dead, that is, burying the coffin. Before burial, the old custom often depends on geomantic omen and chooses a cemetery, which is called "choosing good luck". Funeral is also called funeral. At the funeral, the ancient Han people were generally "dutiful sons", and undertaker sang an elegy. Elegy has evolved into elegy in modern times. Relatives and friends wrote elegiac couplets or funeral elegiac couplets, which evolved into wreaths of elegiac couplets in modern times.

In ancient times, the custom of offering sacrifices to people (mainly close relatives, near ministers and near servants, which remained until the Qing Dynasty) was gradually replaced by pottery figurines, and in modern times, paper figures were buried with them.

After the funeral, there are memorial ceremonies for the seventh, seventh, centenary and anniversary, and the memorial tablet belongs to the ancestral hall, which has changed from a ceremony for people at the funeral to a ceremony for "ghosts" and "ancestors".

In addition, the Han nationality also has the custom of "returning to burial", that is, transporting the bodies that died in other places back to their original places.

During the funeral, the relatives of the deceased should wear mourning clothes and wake in the mourning hall. In the ancient etiquette system of China, filial piety was divided into five grades according to the kinship with the deceased. There is also a word "five clothes" in modern Chinese to express the distance of blood relationship. Filial piety is made of white cloth, which is quite different from the custom of westerners wearing white clothes to make dresses. In the Qing Dynasty, an Englishman came to China for the first time. When he met the funeral procession, everyone was dressed in white, but his expression was painful, sad and strange. In ancient times, people sang elegies at funerals, and Tao Yuanming, a great poet in Jin Dynasty, wrote three elegies for himself before his death. The elegy of later generations evolved from the elegy of ancient times.

The scale of the funeral ceremony is closely related to the status of the deceased. In feudal society, there were strict regulations on funeral ceremonies for people with different identities and status. Princes, nobles and rich people often show off their power with large-scale funerals. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Qin Keqing died in Ningguo Mansion with a coffin worth several thousand taels of silver. Two or three hundred monks chanted, and the procession at the funeral was "mighty and unstoppable". The poor don't even have enough food and clothing, so naturally there is no "reburial". Sometimes you can only wrap the body with a mat and bury it hastily.

After the death of the elder, children and grandchildren should stay at home for 27 months, during which time they should stop socializing and entertaining. Officials must also leave their jobs and go home to be filial to show their condolences to their relatives. This is the so-called "shouzhi".

Examples of funeral procedures

Suppose someone died at the age of 8 1, male, military background, full of children and grandchildren.

Change clothes, wear military uniforms and long-lived shoes. Covered with yellow silk and white silk towel.

All the buttons on the clothes should be cut off, and the clothes should be tied with a cloth belt, but not with a "dead knot".

Initial plastic surgery: facial features reset, with a gold ingot or a coin in his mouth. Gold ingot in the left hand (all imitations) and dog stick (convenient chopsticks) in the right hand.

The body is tied with a red line, mainly hands and feet. If there are cats and dogs to take care of at home, you can't go near the body. (to prevent the soul of the deceased from attaching to animals) transported to the funeral home.

Set up a simple mourning hall at home

Portrait: I prepared an enlarged photo in advance and bought a special photo frame. Set the black ribbon.

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