How to choose a good wedding date

According to China's traditional position theory, there are 365 days in a year, every day is different, and every hour is different. Therefore, we should choose a date before doing something important. For example: getting married. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and attach great importance to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian". Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there was no "Runyue" or "Runnian" in those days, there was no need to force it. Note that "Runnian" is divided into solar calendar and lunar calendar. Then how to choose? Let's take a look!

1. When should we get married?

When should we get married? We should not only follow the general principles, but also embody our own values. Friends first need to understand:

A very good year.

1, Shuangchun

There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.

2, leap month

It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, * * * had thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious.

3. Double spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!

A year of caution

1, blind year

Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.

2. festivals

Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. It is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events.

3.sanniangsha

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. Therefore, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

People have taboo customs in their daily life. Say lucky, avoid unlucky, so there is a saying that "I am angry and not ugly." In taboo customs, it is especially forbidden to say or use the number "thirteen", and all weddings and happy events do not need the thirteenth lunar month.

Legend has it that a long time ago, there was a man named Yang Gong who had thirteen sons. Everyone says that his life is good. Relying on his thirteen sons, Yang Gong often said to people, "I have thirteen sons, even if I encounter three disasters, I am not afraid. Even if one dies in twelve months and one month a year, I still have a son to die for me. "

Coincidentally, there was a plague one year, and this year happened to be a leap month. Yang Gong's sons got the plague and died one after another. By the end of1February, Yang Gong's 13 sons had all died, leaving him alone, and the scene at night was very bleak. People say that everything that happened to Yang Gong was because of his ugly words. From then on, people will avoid saying bad things, and once they say them, they will spit out good things. At the same time, the number thirteen is also considered an ominous number.

4. Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

5. Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.

Second, the special principle of date selection.

Dr. Zheng said that the wedding date should not only follow the general principles, but also reflect its own value. This value is the zodiac and birthday of men and women.

1, the important principle of choosing a day

Give priority to the bride's date of birth, and refer to the man and other dates of birth. As the saying goes: "Give birth to children, marry a woman and marry", which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce, which new people must not ignore. Specifically, the most auspicious wedding date is calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except those with many wealth officials).

2. Parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days.

In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. At least not with parents' horoscopes (five elements demand), nor with parents' food-injured stars (except those with serious food injuries).

3. Can't conflict with the official star day and the financial star day stipulated by the divinatory symbols.

The date chosen does not conflict with the prophecy. Some people are not sure when they were born. They can only determine the date through divination, and the date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

4. Registration date and marriage ceremony

If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.