My male: 198 1, born on March 5th, is a chicken, female: 1983, born on February 27th, is a pig.

There is no need to be so superstitious now, is there? I am 84 years younger than you. I think it's ok to hold a ceremony. Pick any anniversary, 10, 1, or choose 8. 15 (Lunar New Year). Anyway, a memorable day will do. I wish you happiness!

Also, your question was sent in the wrong place. This is the game World of Warcraft.