My sister and brother-in-law are getting married. As a younger brother, I just want them to be happy, so I asked the master to help me choose a wedding date.

How to choose a good wedding day? China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding date, and attach great importance to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.

2. Avoid 379

It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

Step 3 avoid sannianzi

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

4. Marriage and date selection method

The principle of choosing the date of marriage is to take the date of birth of the bride as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries a girl". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck.

5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays

In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.

6. Real wedding day

If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a truly auspicious wedding day.

7. auspicious day method

Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather see the date chosen by the Yellow Calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.

8, to consider the actual work and study of both sides.

If one party is studying in his spare time, avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day marriage" when the good news comes.

9. Consider the reality of both families.

Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly and relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.

10, considering the physical condition of both parties.

If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the woman's opinion.

1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays.

If the wedding date is unified with holidays, it may be wise. The advantages of doing this are: deep memory; Newly married people put on festive clothes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home. However, there are many new people who get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.

12, the definition of a good day

In any case, the definition of "good days" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.

How to choose the right wedding date

1, female life marriage year taboo

Please refer to the last line, for example, noon is the year of the horse.

Avoid children in the year of rabbit and ugliness in the year of tiger.

Cows avoid yin years, while rats avoid Mao years.

The year when a pig dies is the year when a dog dies.

People who love chickens avoid afternoons, while people who love monkeys avoid young people.

Sheep are jealous of Shen Nian, and horses are jealous all year round.

Those who love snakes avoid years, while those who love dragons avoid the sea.

Starting method: Count down from the screwdriver until this year is too old. In case of any signs, it is a taboo year and it is not appropriate to get married.

2. The year of forbidden marriage for men

The first five periods of a year are also taboo for men to get married. Namely:

The year when snakes are forbidden and horses are forbidden.

The year when sheep are forbidden, the year when monkeys are forbidden.

No chickens for one year and no dogs for four years.

No pigs in the afternoon, no rats in the afternoon.

Cattle are forbidden to apply for the year of the tiger.

The year when rabbits are forbidden, the year when tigers are forbidden.

3. Life of women married in Italy.

Healthy qi welcomes chickens and rabbits ※ 28 tigers and monkeys

Sanjiu snake * * * pig forty dragon dog

Cattle, sheep, fifty-one, mouse, horse, six, twelve.

This refers to people who are chickens and rabbits, who get married in July of the first month, and the rest are the same.

Relative photos: Zishu, Ugly Cow, Silver Tiger, Hairy Rabbit, Chen Long, Sishe, Wuma, Weiyang, Shenhou, Youyou Chicken, Dog and Sea Pig.